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So. Um. :tt2:

My guy and I are in a long distance relationship and he came to visit me for the first time ever a few days ago. For reasons we don't need to explore at this juncture, he doesn't know about the band which I got back at the end of Sept, yet.

So on the last night he was here, there may or may not have been some making out. And at one point in order for him not to feel the scars on my stomach (and because I wanted him to) I may or may not have grabbed his hands and placed them on my...upper body region. :blush: :thumbup:

I can't believe I did that! Every time I think about it I start laughing and I just need someone to laugh about it with. What about you guys? Ever done anything like that?

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Xemi, you are a hoot, he probably thought you are a boob woman. Those scars are going to be there a while so the sooner he "sees" them the better!!!!!

Good luck,

Mimi

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Lol, thank you. I didn't know I was a boob woman!

Oh, I know I have to tell him and I will but I also know that right now is not the right time either. If I do, he'll think I got the band because of him which is wrong. I want to see how we do before I tell him.

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ha! that's hilarious. Well done. You know you could always say you had a hernia, the scars actually look about the same. That was my plan haha, and I don't want to tell annyy guy I'm with so I am relying on it.

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give yourselves time to develop a deep trust. then tell your secrets. It's not necessary at this point.

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I may or may not have grabbed his hands and placed them on my...upper body region. :biggrin: :tongue:

What about you guys? Ever done anything like that?

No I have not had the opportunity to touch your upper body region. lol :angel_smile:

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Woohoo! Someone's getting some hot boobie action!

I say good for you, and maybe you were more forward than you would expect due to increased self-confidence! That's AWESOME!!! :-D

Good on ya, and I'm glad you guys had a good time ;-)

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