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apparently she hasn't cared enough to come back and check her supportive posts from everyone.........why all antsy in the pantsy?? Sometimes I don't get a lot of posts or answers to threads I start .........no need to up and call everyone unsupportive and not come back..jeesh

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I know, and what am I, chopped liver? She said she only had one good reply from Jachut, and I replied!! Ooooh, I didn't have a GOOD reply. humph. oh well.

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Girls, Girls... I am sure that Fee was just frustrated. We all have our bad days. And I would imagine that she has come back and read the posts - she just hasn't replied.

Or, maybe she really did feel unloved and leave. That would be sad.

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Okay, here's my two cents' worth, and I am not a doctor and not an attorney. But I am a legal nurse consultant, so I've had some dealings with medical malpractice.

You can pretty much sue anybody for anything. You may lose the lawsuit, but you can sue, if it floats your boat. The difference between a "good" lawsuit and a "bad" lawsuit is the amount of damages. What were your damages? If the hole in your stomach heals and doesn't leave a massive scar, then you have minimal damages. If your insurance company pays all the charges associated with the injury, then you have no monetary damages. Pain and suffering are damages, but only to the extent they are excessive.....beyond what a person would normally experience in a surgical and post-op situation.

We don't know the answer to any of the questions. You need to call some personal injury attorneys and ask if they takes cases on a contingency basis. If so, they will front all the expenses of the lawsuit, and you will pay them out of any money awarded. In my humble opinion, it doesn't sound like a big case to me, but I could be wrong. The only person who can decide that is you, and you are the one who needs to be doing the legwork.

Good luck!

Kathy

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Girls, Girls... I am sure that Fee was just frustrated. We all have our bad days. And I would imagine that she has come back and read the posts - she just hasn't replied.

Or, maybe she really did feel unloved and leave. That would be sad.

you are 100% right there, i have being watching the thread

thanx for the advice that most have given, much appreciated!!!

Candysmooch and Thinjen please if u have nuthin nice too say, well dont say it.

I have rang a lwayer and said i would have a case on my hands as there is permanent scaring but it could take 6 moths.

i have only just found this out, thats why i havent replied any earlier.

thanks for your support

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Thanx and u did help

i think i mostly got upset baecause i actually pmed someone from here personally asking for there thoughts, and they could not even reply to my pm, and that got me a bit upset.

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