Will be banded 10/28

MSFROSH · October 2, 2005

I will be banded on 10/28 and want to be excited, but do not have the support of my family. My husband is supportive so that helps. I am starting to question my decision now, and feeling a little depressed.

banded_for_life · October 2, 2005

You wouldn't be human if you didn't question these kinds of life altering decisions. But you are smart woman and make the right decision for you and your family, I am sure!!

the best me · October 2, 2005

Don't be depressed, be informed!! The more you know, the more you will feel confident about your decision, no matter what others think! What questions do you have? What worries you? I'll tell you anything you want to know...we all will here! ((hugs)) and welcome to LBT!!

AnotherMe · October 2, 2005

Hi msfrosh! Congratulations on setting the date for your surgery! I will be banded on Monday 10/10. The closer it gets, the more excited/anxious I get!

How wonderful that your husband is supporting you in this journey! Lean on him, talk-talk-talk to him about your concerns and feelings. I'm sorry that the rest of your family is not coming around to seeing your side of this great tool.... is it because they don't understand the way it will improve your life/health? Do they realize it is not as dangerous as the bypass?

I'm divorced, and I have to say that if it was not for my Mom (and this wonderful group at LBT!) I'm not sure if I would be as excited to go thru with this procedure. I've done 7 months of research, been to several seminars - and took my Mom with me too! She's my rock! I have to say, I was cautious to explain this to her in the beginning.. she's a retired dietician and I was not entirely sure she wouldn't tell me to just diet and excercise. But, she's seen my struggle with weight over the years. We both know the success of the band will depend on how well I chose to work with it.

I've decided not to tell any of my close friends yet, or anyone at work either. I want to do this at my pace, and not have others scrutinizing my behavior!

I hope you realize that the wonderful friends on this board are just like brothers & sisters... adopt us and we'll be the supportive family you need during this journey.

ALL THE BEST,

happypsychrn · October 3, 2005

Hi msfrosh, I too am to be banded soon and have little support. My BF is the only one who knows and he's not too excited about it. Use this forum for your support or you can e-mail me privately and we'll support each other. Good luck and congrats for your decision to seek a better life.