Can't believe he went THERE...

[Kristine73 1]

The PPO can work in your favor. Doug and the police will def take the situation as seriously as possible. it also shows a pattern of behavior.

He obviously thinks he women are his playthings to push around as he pleases. WRONG!

I think your hubs should be told. I also think you need to document everything, no matter how small it may seem to you. Like, if he's watching you, your kids, blah-blah-blah. When you document something put the date, time and sign each entry. This is what I was told to do when I was stalked back in the '90s.

Tell hubs, but tell him worst case scenario first, as far as HIS reaction. You could end up losing everything. He could be the one in jail w/charges against him.

I hope Doug had you fill out an incidence report on the situation.

Sending hugs and keep safe. And got get some mace to put on your keyhain. I never understood women who buy mace then loose it in the bottom of their purse. You want want it at hand.

[wendy645 1]

This thread died off in August. What happened?! I hope you and your family are doing well and he got himself in some deep doodoo!

[Boo Boo Kitty 3]

I had chosen to have my cop friend have a talk with him which worked well. He says nothing to me and I say nothing to him. I do hate never telling my husband, but I think that is for the best. If he didn't live next door I would tell DH! :wink: Sorry I didn't update, I stay away from here a lot now. Too much!

[Jesusislove 26]

Sounds like a total sicko, I still would tell my husband just in case he tries something even weirder.

[Boo Boo Kitty 3]

Doug (Cop friend) did make a report so there is a paper trail.

I pulled my daughter out of his class and refused to let her go back. I told my husband we were just too busy for it. I hate lying but it is better than him killing someone!