When do you tell a potential partner (that will see you naked)?

[steph_co 9]

Neveragain - It's frustration with the entire thread, my dear - not with you directly. To keep hearing "to build trust, you should," is getting a little old. *sigh* I was hoping for kind of a fun-type thread where people could share their stories, but not try and tell me how to do a relationship. Excuse my frustration. :seeya: (Genuinely - I'm not trying to be snide.)

[new_journey4me 1]

Do what makes you comfortable...don't listen to anyone else. If you think this going somewhere, then he's going to like you no matter what! AND if he doesn't then good -bye you don't need that. You are looking great and feeling great! Keep up the GREAT work! You're an inspiration! Good luck! :seeya:)

[Hpierce_KS 0]

I am jumping in rather late but, I kind of used to think about this when I first was banded a lot. I was banded over two years ago, I am a slow loser so needless to say I am only about 90 lbs lighter. I really tell everyone I meet. Dealing with guys I have decided to tell them at the very beginning. most of the time I will eat with them before any nakedness happens. So, one of my personal rules is to tell everyone I eat with in a personal setting about my band so that they dont feel weird about it. Some guys are weird though when you tell them. I have had guys who have even kissed my scars. To me, its not uncomfortable unless when I tell them they are quiet. Most will ask some questions and I just prefer to tell much before the pants are coming unzipped.

Heddy

[MrRiceGuy 1]

most of the time I will eat with them before any nakedness happens

:frown: ....epic