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Hello everyone!

I just joined this site to learn more about post op banding and to talk with others who have been through a similiar experience. I'm happily married to the most wonderful man in the world. He has been a great support to me in my decision to have the procedure done. I have 3 sons 2 of which are still in elementary school and my oldest graduated from high school.

For most of my life I have had high blood pressure, and borderline diabetes never to the point of having to take medication for it though. However, had I not decided to do something about my weight, there is no doubt in my mind that I would have eventually been put on medication.

As a child I was overweight. My parents would say "she's just chubby, she will grow out of it when she reaches puberty". Let's just say either I have not reached puberty or my parents were wrong! LOL.

I have tried every diet under the sun. Atkins, cabbage Soup diet, south beach, weight watchers, diet pills, starvation, the fat busters diet with Ian Smith. You name it I tried it! Finally, I decided to check into bariatric surgery. I know of many people who have had bariatric surgery and been successful. My friends who have had the procedure have had the bypass. I did not want something that invasive, so I decided to check out the band. After extensive research and talking with my husband about this, I decided to have the band.

I chose the band simply because it is less invasive, and it is a gradual weight loss. Sure I would love a "miracle cure" however, I did not gain all this excessive weight overnight, so I am not going to lose this excessive weight overnight. Also by having the band, it is teaching me to eat slower, and eat much smaller portions, and to choose what I eat wisely. I am also making sure I exercise daily by walking at least a mile a day.

I do not regret for one minute making this life changing decision. I have never felt better, happier, or healthier. I still have a long way to go, but I know I will reach my goal with the help and support of my family and friends.

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