Getting Started and Already Discouraged

[Neya 0]

Hi everyone,

This is my first post even thought I've been lurking here for a while now. I've been looking into the lap-band for over a year but never got the courage to speak to my doctor about it. I have BCBS HMO of Illinois and when my PCP changed and I finally spoke up. She sent me to the weight-loss classes at the clinic which is to last a whole year. I also got a 1200 calorie diet to follow which is really not helpful to me at all. So now I'm in limbo and getting discouraged. One class a month for the next 10 months feels like forever! The funny thing is my insurance program doesn't require any classes or waiting. They base it all on the doctors referral. I just wish I could be referred to the actual surgeon that does the procedure to find out what is really needed and or required. I know I need patience but I guess in my mind I've already waited over a year and I want action now! I just want to feel like I'm moving towards my goal.

[ParrotheadCathy 0]

The obvious is to consider changing your PCP! You are not stuck with this one.

[SuzanneG 1]

I would have a talk with your current PCP and tell her you do not want to wait a year as you've been researching and considering the band for a year already. Ask her for a referral to the bariatric doc (if you need one). If she won't cooperate, I'd switch doctors.

[greytz 4]

Have you been to any seminars? Usually, you can meet the surgeon at them. I would definitely try and move things along. It can be very frustrating to wait that long but I would definitely talk to my PCP first and see if they are willing to move you along.

[Neya 0]

Surprisingly I didn't even think to ask for another doctor! Right now my appointment is in September with my next class scheduled for next week... Thanks for the support

[cb0828 5]

Go to the surgeons icon and then click on your state, See who the surgeon's are close to you and then call and see how to be referred. I dd not go through my PCP. I went to a information seminar and went from there.

[Neya 0]

Thanks CB another great suggestion....

Good Luck on surgery tomorrow

[cb0828 5]

Thanks... I am a little scared. Less than 24 hours left and I will be banded. Good luck and keep us posted.

[Neya 0]

Well I followed cb's advise and attended a seminar with Dr Stanish. Just before the seminar I had a conversation with my PCP and they wrote the referral. The insurance department at my PCP's clinic replied that I had to wait for 18 months before they would even consider me for the procedure. Lucky for me I had just attended Dr Standish's seminar or I would have been in tears and so depressed. Now I am waiting to hear from the seminar's insurance person as to weather or not I can go forward.

I am so scared and nervous. She called yesterday and I missed her call... I dont know what to do if it comes back negative...ARRRGGGG!!!!!