NJChick 3 Posted February 16, 2006 Go Janey Go Janey Go Janey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
FunnyDuddies 6 Posted February 16, 2006 Wow. I am surprised by all of this. Jane will eventually walk away completely from John. She should. He continues to show his selfishness. Its quite sad. It makes me crazy that men center the relationship around sex so much. My father did this with my mother. His deal with her was that she was getting older. Thing is, she is in her 50's and literally looks like she is in her 30's. But he still left her for a 30 year old trvel agent. He also gave her everything in the divorce. And wanted to remain friends. But when she stepped back from the relationship she was able to see how much of a deceiver he was. How controlling he was. And how he needed someone younger so that he could be dominant over them. He left the travel agent when she turned 40. He is now dating a 28 year old. Just like "john". Jane is doing great, and honestly, is better off with all of this. Glad to hear she is doing so well in her weight loss, and that is great that she has found someone that she can relate to with the WLS experiences. And there is SOOO much to be said for casual dating!! LOL She needs to go out there and enjoy her new found bod with men who are going to love her new figure!!! Go Jane!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites