There's a new kid on the block....

[Valieb43 0]

Hello all!

My name is Val and I live in Buffalo...and I am tired of being overweight. I am 6'1", and tipping the scales at 280. That would be awesome stats, if I was on the defensive line for the Bills. Instead, I am a bubbly blonde who is trapped inside her body. This is my first time reading over this site, and I have to say that I am inspired. I have been doing research, talking to family, friends and my doctor about Lap-Band, and have gotten sooo much feedback. I wish I could say that it was all positive :wink:

My mom is scared, and doesnt understand why I cant "just lose the weight." She is 5'5" and weighs about 150...and thinks she is fat. My boyfriend is a big guy, but he just wants me to be happy and healthy, so he is being supportive. I have a few friends who are very excited for me, and a few who have struggled with their own weight, and are now envious. I guess I dont see what there is to be envious about...I am built like a linebacker, I was recently diagnosed with diabetes, my blood pressure is high, and my cholesterol could use some attention. Last I checked it wasn't cool the carry around a glucose meter in your Coach purse....before you are even 30!!!!

I am also a little frustrated with the people who tell me that I dont need surgery, and that I am fine the way I am. It isn't that I dont like myself...because I know that I have a lot going for me, but I cant do much if I am winded when I walk upstairs, or when I am scared of having a heart attack. I realize I am saying a lot for my introduction, but it was great to come across a place where you can talk to people who understand.

I have started the process, and am hoping to have the surgery at the end of the summer. My health insurance is pretty strict, so I have to go to all sorts of appointments 1st.

I appreciate you taking the time to check me out....

Chat soon!