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Anyone here from north jersey area like bergen county interested in a buddy? I need a bandster friend or maybe a to be bandster friend to go through this journey together. I had the realize band since oct 2008 and ive gone this far alone and now its getting harder to stay on track, i need someone to talk to who understands!

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Anyone here from north jersey area like bergen county interested in a buddy? I need a bandster friend or maybe a to be bandster friend to go through this journey together. I had the realize band since oct 2008 and ive gone this far alone and now its getting harder to stay on track, i need someone to talk to who understands!

I'm in Union County and would love to chat. :(

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Hi....I'm new to this dance...having my surgery in November. But I AM from Bergen County ! Does that help ? :blink:

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I'm in Union County, but was also banded in Oct 2008 and I know what you mean about staying on track.

Went for a fill this morning and they said that my pouch was just starting to stretch so I have to get back to measuring my food and watching the drinking before I really stretch it.

Where in Bergen County are you?

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Hi Im from Passaic County. I haven't gotten the band yet. I'm approved by the insurance company and all just really scared and not sure whats best for me. I could use some people to talk to I'm willing to help you through.

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It is absolutely worth it. Definately changed my life. I'm not always on this site like I should be but I do find it helpful. My band has taught me that food is really not that important. I still eat everything except beef and bread. Just have to make sure you eat slowly or you will have nasty consequences. Reach out anytime you like. My email is JER33N3@yahoo.com

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Hi,

Band-er to be in Northern NJ wondering which Dr. you went with and if you were pleased with his or her staff?

I am leaning toward Dr. Davis in Ridgewood, but would welcome any input.

Thanks!

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I used Dr. Nusbaum in Livingston. He and his staff to say the least are wonderful. His number is 973-322-7977.

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