Vanity 0 Posted June 4, 2009 Hi, Im new here, scheduled to be banded on 6/24 by Dr Ortiz in MX who also banded my mom a few years ago. Im very excited but my husband gets upset everytime I even try to talk about it. Thanks for having me! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TopTier 0 Posted June 4, 2009 Is your husband worried for you (because of surgery)? Or is he just not understanding why you need it? Oh, and congratz! We're excited WITH you! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Vanity 0 Posted June 4, 2009 I think he's both worried about the procedure and worried that I'll get skinny and leave him (he's about 360lbs) Thanks for the congrats, I'm really looking forward to it!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MissK 0 Posted June 4, 2009 I think he's both worried about the procedure and worried that I'll get skinny and leave him (he's about 360lbs) Thanks for the congrats, I'm really looking forward to it!! I'm sorry your husband is finding this tough, have you asked him outright why he gets upset when you talk about it? Would he consider doing it to? It would be an amazing process to go through together. Best wishes for your surgery! MissK x x Share this post Link to post Share on other sites