female only Angry with shallow husband since Lap

[OnMyWay2Thin 45]

Maybe he's afraid that you will feel the same way some of the others feel, that he only loves you because you look incredible! Maybe he wants you to know that no matter how thin or heavy you are, you are it for him. Sometimes we need to just not read things into our hubby's actions. Was he supportive when you had your surgery and made the decision to get the band and then the reduction? That speaks volumes if he was. I have no doubt he loves you so much he's just trying not to offend you!

[Ms.Gracie 0]

MaryRose, I am right there with you. I have lost about 30lbs and I get compliments, and its followed by what does hubby say?... and you know what he never says anthing, but I don't hold that against him. He's the smart man and has always played it safe, and never comments. I can Ask does this or that look better and he will be honest. Or I have to make a comment like " dang look these pants don't fit anymore" he will say "thats good babe your doing good". but he never initiates a comment. I am ok w/ that. We have been married 12 years and we have never had a bad bedroom relationship, no matter how much i weighed. i guess he really loves ME.. and i love him too.