I need advice!!! Please help!!!

[talkalot1981 5]

OK So March 2nd I went to the doctor to get another refill on my depression/anxiety meds. He had to up my dosage because I was starting to get hives from the anxiety. Well I also discussed the LapBand. He told me I had to wait a month so I could get used to taking the higher dosage of my meds. Well my appointment for my meds evaluation is tomorrow. Then my appiontment to talk to him about the lapband is the 6th. Well I am still having trouble with getting hives from the anxiety but I am affraid to say anything because I might have to wait another month to discuss the lapband. What should I do?

Should I just keep quiet about it for now so I can get started on proceeding with the lapband? The hives are not as bad but they were supposed to be eliminated with the dosage increase.

PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!:smile2:

Edited April 2, 2009 by talkalot1981

[ValJean 6]

As someone who is also on medication for anxiety and depression, I would suggest that you talk to your doc ASAP about the hives; don't wait.

The reason I say this (besides the fact that dealing with hives any longer than absolutely necessary sounds awful!), is because when I went in for my initial consultations for the lapband, my mental health issues were definitely a hurdle—there was increased concern about my ability to deal with the lifestyle change because of my condition, and the possibility of an increase in my depression/anxiety. So, I think it's important to be in a place where your meds are really working for you, and you're not suffering from any really troubling side effects (mental or physical).

Hope that helps somewhat. I just think it's always best to be up front with your doc, saves time and trouble in the long run!

Good luck!

Valerie

[RestlessMonkey 7]

I agree, tell your doc, and tell ASAP. The band can be a real head trip, regardless of how much you want it.

You want to optimize your chances for success and that means being as ready as you can be. It isn't a race.

One thing I don't understand, though; discussing isn't doing. Why can't you 'discuss" the band now? You don't have to start the process until he feels your issues are controlled, but what harm to talk about it? THAT I don't understand.

[di1138 8]

I agree with what the others have said but would like to add ;

are you sure the hives are from anxiety? Could it be something in your diet, surroundings or even meds? It could be an allergy that just popped up too. Good luck. Hope you feel better soon!

[talkalot1981 5]

My appointment to talk to the doc about my meds are tomorrow. I will talk to him about it.

RestlessMonkey, the reason I had to wait a month was because he said we had to get my meds under control. Plus my appointment last month was to talk about meds. They are military docs and only will deal with one issue at a time. I am hoping all goes well tomorrow and we can still proceed with my appointment on the 6th.

OH OH I hope this all goes well. I will let everyone know about it tomorrow. Jennifer

[RestlessMonkey 7]

The millitary mindset...my husband is retired army, how could I forget it? LOL

Good luck; I hope things work out for you the way you wish!

[elgrad 0]

In a way, you have answered your own question. Why fight 2 battles? Get the anxiety under control and then face the weight issue head on. I also am dealing with the military medical system and although it can be frustrating to be seen for one thing at a time, in this case, I think it makes sense. You can only fight one battle at a time and be successful, so give it your all one at a time! Just my 2 cents worth.

Good luck!

Elgrad

[talkalot1981 5]

I had my appointment today. The doc said they hives are most likely from switching dosages because it was such a difference. He said even with me still having hives I can still go forward in getting the lapband. So, WOOHOO my appointment is the 6th and I can't wait. So I am continueing in my journey and couldn't be any happier. I will let everyone know how my appointment goes on the 6th. Jennifer