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The doctor said ,i wasn't a good candidate for the Lap Band. He recommends RNY. I don't know about that ,will see... JERRY P.S. He said he would still do it though.:smile2:

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WHY did he say you weren't a good candidate, if you don't mind? Need that info to help you....

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The way i eat. He said if i ate a lot,fast and double portions it be for me if not go with the RNY .I don.t so... RNY? Confusing... i do sometimes over do it but usually eat less and less.

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From my surgeon, (and my experience) to be successful with the band you need to 1. chew each bite at least 40 times 2 eat each meal in 30 minutes...don't take longer to graze through a large meal 3. take very small bites 4. eat Protein first, then veggies, then fruit, then Pasta, rice, bread, grains, 5. DO NOT snack and 6. Dont drink any liquid 15 minutes before, during or 15 minutes after each meal.

If you can do all of that, you will be successful with the band. Once you have restriction you physically CAN NOT eat fast or take bites that are too large or not chew well. At the least you will be uncomfortable for a while before you vomit back up the bite that is too large (or poorly chewed). At the worst you will hurt yourself, or turn only to foods that go down easily, (slider foods) and overeat. Either way is not good.

If you can't follow those rules, the "band will fail"; but actually it won't, you will. It's a tool and you must use it. If you aren't ready or willing, it won't do you any good.

If you think you can do all that, either return to your surgeon and be firm about your desire for the band, or find another surgeon. If you don't think you can do that (not everyone can; there's no shame in that at all) then the band isn't the operation for you.

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