male only Female Invasion of the Mens Room

[B-Man 1]

Lap-Dancer

Is you husband overweight himself? Since the sex has stopped since you started your weight loss, maybe he is suffering from some insecurities of his own?

Also religion can be used as excuse/reason to stay in a bad relationship, but no god that I know, or one I would want to be faithful to, would expect me to live a life of unhappiness for their sake.

You have needs physical and emotional. It is your partner in marriage responsibility to meet those needs(or at least try.) As far as I am concerned "To Death do us part" doesn't necessarily have to be physical death. Emotional death can qualify too.

[alabubba 0]

I would offer 2 avenues of thought.

Firstly, Some men find large woman attractive, Maybe your husband is one of them.

The second is Depression.

There are many different levels of depression but they are all treatable, and serious.

I would talk to a therapist ASAP. by yourself if necessary. With the therapists help you can get him to join you.

I flirted on the edge with depression for a couple years and the fatigue excuse is a common one.