Louisa Latela 226 Posted February 23, 2009 (edited) The Awakening, Part II (Author Unknown) So you learn to stand on your own and take care of yourself and in the process a sense of safety and security is born of self-reliance. You stop judging and pointing fingers and you begin to accept people as they are and to overlook their short comings and human frailties and in the process a sense of peace and contentment is born of forgiveness. You realize that much of the way you view yourself, and the world around you is a result of all the messages and opinions that have been ingrained into your psyche. And you begin to sift through all the crap you’ve been fed about how you should behave, how you should look and how much you should weigh, what you should wear and where you should shop and what you drive , how and where you should live and what you should do for a living, who you should sleep with, who you should marry and what you should expect of a marriage, the importance of having and raising children or what you owe your parents. You learn to open up to new worlds and different points of view. And you begin reassessing and redefining who you are and what you really stand for. You learn the difference between wanting and needing and you begin to discard the doctrines and values you’ve outgrown or never should have bought into to begin with and in the process you learn to go with your instincts. You learn that it is truly in giving that we receive. And that there is power and glory in creating and contributing and you stop maneuvering through live merely as a “consumer” looking for your next fix. You learn that principles such as honesty and integrity are not the outdated ideals of a by gone era but the mortar that holds together the foundation upon which you must build a life. Check back Thursday for Part III www.ysayit.com (Women Supporting Women) FYI: I will be starting another Women’s Telephone Support Group on Monday 2/23. For details visit: www.louisalatela.com If you have any questions or comments please do not hesitate to contact me! louisa@louisalatela.com or 856.429.9799 Edited February 23, 2009 by Louisa Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SillyGoose 0 Posted February 23, 2009 Thank you so much for sharing this with us! I look forward to reading Part III. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Louisa Latela 226 Posted February 24, 2009 it's my pleasure! glad that it seems to be resonating with so many people! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites