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excuse us gentlemen, a poll from the ladies



do enjoy back door play on your self?  

17 members have voted

  1. 1. do enjoy back door play on your self?

    • been there, done that, feels great, like it
      80
    • wont go there, no way, no how
      60
    • been there, done that, no thanks
      23
    • never been there, but curious
      27


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i sure hope you all dont mind a post from the ladies. we have a thread going in our powder room regarding anal sex. some inquiring minds were wondering your feeling/views on the subject.

do you enjoy play in that area on yourself? we dont intend to offend anyone with this. some have heard that stimulation in that area is pleasurable for guys. some have the whole "dont go there" thing going. we are just wondering.

any input on the subject is greatly appreciated. thanks for letting us intrude in your room.

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yep have been there... have done that... and i do enjoy it... but then again im gay...

its called milking the prostate... and any guy that can relax long enough to play will find they do really enjoy it....

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Funny how this comes up sooo often...in conversation. We were hanging with some freinds of ours in B's garage, by the way both couples are bikers. One of the guys ® mentioned how he didn't understand how people (men) could play back there. As the wife of our other friend (:cursing: began explaining technique after about a 20 minute leson you could see the color go out of R's face as he realized B's wife was expalining what she does to B.....lol we still laugh about it

Don't know if R ever let his wife go there.

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There was a Sex in the City episode that touched on this topic... the point was that guys often like to be touched in that area (which IS an erogenous zone) but don't like to admit it (and my theory there is that that's because of association of that area with homosexuality, and the general homophobia of men). I'm not surprised that many guys aren't answering.... though I wish they would since i'm curious.

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I wish they would too. This is something that I am curious about.

If you men are not comfortable answering here, you can come into the girls room and answer in the

question "Why do women like anal sex" I don't understand why women like it although some have said they can orgasm from it, which mystifies me. Is the reason the guys like it because it feels tighter? Or just like variety? Curious minds want to know....

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Honestly, it just isn't that interesting to most men. We have everything we need on the front side.

That's probably why your not going to get a lot of responses.

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yep have been there... have done that... and i do enjoy it... but then again im gay..

Well.....no offense to my lapband brotha bohica, but that's what I said on the women's board and got a chewing for it. Wow...so this is what vindication feels like, eh? lol.

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Wow, what a topic! I guess us guys just aren't as open as you crazy girls in the powder room! I've only been with one woman my entire life and that's my lovely wife. At one point I showed a little curiosity in that area but my wife made it more than clear she wasn't going there. She felt it was demoralizing to her I agreed. So although still somewhat curious, I guess I'll never know......

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I'm not sure why so many people say that they don't have any experience in this area....the Government performs this on every one of us each April 15th. :thumbup:

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Okay, so my fellow guys are keeping pretty quiet. I'll bite. My wife and I tried this after about 7-8 years of marriage when we were exploring a variety of things to try to spice things up. It was okay-nothing spectacular. Did it a few times, and sort of agreed that it didn't really work for either one of us.

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Negative, I 100% agree with the poster that said quite simply.

"WE have what we need up front, no need to go there"

Its not worth it, and I too agree its a bit degrading on the womans part so why?

I'm all for some good fun, but there are many MANY other things going on in that region I'd rather not mix and match with my sex life.

Plus, you shouldn't have to prep for sex, it takes the spontinaity out of it when you have to "prepare" for it.

Just MY THOUGHTS, since you think nobody was chiming in and speaking up.

I must say this really isn't the place for this post, this is not why I come here and certainly isn't what I was expecting to read in the mens room today :-)

I'm not an old fuddy duddy by any means, just giving my honest opinion..

Cya..

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I like anal. But I think it has alot to do with the woman you are with also. If she is down, then im down. If she isn't then thats perfectly fine also. But HELL no im not taking anything up my ass. I do however enjoy "tossing salad" and find more women receptive to that then anal.

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