BethFromVA 5 Posted February 24, 2009 I don't know how they handle things in CA, but in TN if the mother is receiving any type of government assistance, they force the mother to tell who the possible father is for child support. If the father didn't have some type of legal agreement where he wasn't resposible for those kids, then he needs to start coughing up some cash to help those kids too. If he has insurance, they need to be added. He should not be able to get a pass just because he didn't know. But that's the thing -- in THIS case, he DID know. If all I've read is even remotely true, he was in love with her, had had a relationship with her, and she had had problems getting pregnant the traditional way. He supplied sperm for her to have IVF. Sorry, but that's not the same as going to a sperm bank and getting a "withdrawal" from an anonymous source. As far as I'm concerned, this guy IS the father and needs to step up toot sweet. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie_C 9 Posted February 24, 2009 If he's offering to take care of them, she should let him regardless! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
*slim* 2 Posted February 24, 2009 Nothing that I have read says he's offering support. He is just demanding a DNA test. He is obviously being just as self serving as she is. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plain 12 Posted February 25, 2009 I caught the first few minutes of TMZ last night and showed here getting into an SUV at a gas station, and another woman recognized her and was screaming at her to get a life and get a job and quit sticking it to the taxpayers. And was that woman named "Beth"? LOLOLOLOLOLOL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
heartfire 4 Posted February 25, 2009 Did anyone catch Oprah? I was going to try to watch but I had to go to the city to get an un-fill so I missed it. I kind of wanted to see what her dad had to say. Not sure if I want to watch her on Dr. Phil or not. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Band_Groupie 3 Posted February 25, 2009 Did anyone catch Oprah? Yea, it was just...sad. He talked to Nadya at several points about stopping having kids as she couldn't handle any more and neither could the grandparents. He talked to her many times about the costs of a child. He even talked to the IVF doc after the 6th one and told him all the issues and that it needed to stop. As the preview showed, he thinks she has mental issues. He's going back to work to help her out. He hopes she'll get help. I felt sorry for him. Dr. Oz was on also and laid into the doc, but he also commented on whether people should help Nadya or not. He said he's been getting lots of comments from people around America that want to help the children, but they don't trust the mom not to spend the money on pedicures. Nadyas dad said "send it to me". Like I said, it was just...sad. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BethFromVA 5 Posted February 25, 2009 And was that woman named "Beth"? LOLOLOLOLOLOL I wish. I would have kissed that woman full on the lips if I was there and heard her. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coltonwade 27 Posted February 25, 2009 I watched Oprah and I think as much as the dad tried to act like he was a hard ass on her he made excuses for her . And that's probably been her problem her whole life. Also I will say this. I do NOT LIKE Dr OZ one bit. HOWEVER he was about the only one on that show that siad it like it is which is " She's LOONEY , has no business rasing those kids and someone needs to step in now " So i'll give him credit for that . Her parents are not helping her they are enabling her ! Mindy Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coltonwade 27 Posted February 25, 2009 The dad came out at one point when Oprah said " she needs cousneling " or something like that . that man looked at her ON The air and said " WILL YOU GIVE IT TO HER " I was LIKE WTF and Oprah was like WTF I think she said even " ME " Yea, it was just...sad. He talked to Nadya at several points about stopping having kids as she couldn't handle any more and neither could the grandparents. He talked to her many times about the costs of a child. He even talked to the IVF doc after the 6th one and told him all the issues and that it needed to stop. As the preview showed, he thinks she has mental issues. He's going back to work to help her out. He hopes she'll get help. I felt sorry for him. Dr. Oz was on also and laid into the doc, but he also commented on whether people should help Nadya or not. He said he's been getting lots of comments from people around America that want to help the children, but they don't trust the mom not to spend the money on pedicures. Nadyas dad said "send it to me". Like I said, it was just...sad. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TQUAD64 9 Posted February 25, 2009 And was that woman named "Beth"? LOLOLOLOLOLOL Okay, I confess...it was me yelling at her. Me from California. A California tax payer who is pissed off at acto-momma. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TQUAD64 9 Posted February 25, 2009 Yah, if octotwat is having children in the hopes of having creatures who will love her regardless, her plan, she will find out when they become teenagers, will have been in vain. She would be better off to adopt a dozen dogs or so from an animal shelter. I have cats; I am used to being shown the paw. LOL LOL!!! This is the truth. We will see how much love is flowing when she has 14 teenagers all hating her or wanting stuff. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
green 6 Posted February 25, 2009 I am so much looking forward to today Dr. Phil show. I am gonna have a bath before hand, not answer the door nor the phone, and I am going to make a bowel of sphaghetti. Ooops! I must rush. Only 1 hour to go until it is on local time! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BethFromVA 5 Posted February 25, 2009 I am so much looking forward to today Dr. Phil show. I am gonna have a bath before hand, not answer the door nor the phone, and I am going to make a bowel of sphaghetti. Ooops! I must rush. Only 1 hour to go until it is on local time! Guess I'll have to catch it online later. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie_C 9 Posted February 25, 2009 I love cats and I had about 9 at one time. They were hard enough to take care of, let along 14 kids! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Daisalana 33 Posted February 25, 2009 OctoMom Offered $1 Million to Make a Porno - TMZ.com Major porn distributor Vivid Entertainment has just fired off a letter to Nadya Suleman, offering her 1 million bucks to star in a skin flick of her own. Vivid is willing to go one step further, by telling us they'll give her family full medical and dental insurance if she becomes a "contract girl"... meaning she'll have to do multiple videos. Nice. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites