Why do women have anal sex?

[cyndiloowho 0]

how do we know the lube was for her bottom? .....

What else would Anal-Eze be used for? lol..... :thumbup:

Anal sex is good. (Geeze, Freudian Slip much? I accidentally typed 'anal sex is food'....eesh!)

<---it makes a person make that face, though!

[JayTee562 1]

What else would Anal-Eze be used for? lol..... :thumbup:

Uhm for her partner; I wasn't questioning it being used on a bottom just who's bottom was it used on.

Edited September 8, 2009 by JayTee562
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[socialyte100 0]

I love it and it is aquired position. It takes a lot of patience and you have to have an experienced partner, but I was able to have orgasms, but it is not for everyone.

[cyndiloowho 0]

I thought of this thread during an intimate moment tonight.

[billfresh 0]

gotta say i stumbled onto this thread by accident. went to the ladies forum to easedrop on the conversation. must say i was surprised at this thread, but i was also curious whether women really enjoy this. regarding anal play on men, as for me, stay away from the back door. exit only. a friend told me about a hooker he had who used anal beads on him. WHAT!?! said she pulled the cord and started him like a lawnmower. TMI. some things are meant only for confession i guess. he was drunk and i think he was sorry he told me. God knows i never brought it up though. anyway, ladies, thanks for the insight.

[Andrew6 0]

gotta say i stumbled onto this thread by accident. went to the ladies forum to easedrop on the conversation. must say i was surprised at this thread, but i was also curious whether women really enjoy this. regarding anal play on men, as for me, stay away from the back door. exit only. a friend told me about a hooker he had who used anal beads on him. WHAT!?! said she pulled the cord and started him like a lawnmower. TMI. some things are meant only for confession i guess. he was drunk and i think he was sorry he told me. God knows i never brought it up though. anyway, ladies, thanks for the insight.

:smile: sounds like some blackmail

[billfresh 0]

:smile: sounds like some blackmail

if he had anything worth blackmailing him for that would be true.

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

gotta say i stumbled onto this thread by accident. went to the ladies forum to easedrop on the conversation. must say i was surprised at this thread, but i was also curious whether women really enjoy this. regarding anal play on men, as for me, stay away from the back door. exit only. a friend told me about a hooker he had who used anal beads on him. WHAT!?! said she pulled the cord and started him like a lawnmower. TMI. some things are meant only for confession i guess. he was drunk and i think he was sorry he told me. God knows i never brought it up though. anyway, ladies, thanks for the insight.

Hi Bill,

I can only speak for myself, but I really DO enjoy it...it's a different kind of sensation, and without getting too graphic, it allows my DH to keep his hands free to explore other parts of my body.

One of our favorite ways to enjoy this position is with him on his back and me on my back on top of him...takes a bit of coordination and timing, but it can be done...and because he's taller and heavier than I, it's more comfortable for me that way...

You MUST be ready for this...it's not something everyone will enjoy - some women will do it because their partners love it and it brings the partner pleasure. Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate, and take your partner's anatomy as well as your own into account. It MUST be a mutual decision - there can be no coercion or force involved (unless that is part of the enjoyment for you both), and you should talk about it afterward. Communication - honest, open communication - is critical when trying something that is new to both of you and has all sorts of societal 'baggage' around it.

Now that I've gotten that out there... everyone enjoy your weekend! :smile:

Edited October 2, 2009 by EbonyRose

[billfresh 0]

Hi Bill,

I can only speak for myself, but I really DO enjoy it...it's a different kind of sensation, and without getting too graphic, it allows my DH to keep his hands free to explore other parts of my body.

One of our favorite ways to enjoy this position is with him on his back and me on my back on top of him...takes a bit of coordination and timing, but it can be done...and because he's taller and heavier than I, it's more comfortable for me that way...

You MUST be ready for this...it's not something everyone will enjoy - some women will do it because their partners love it and it brings the partner pleasure. Lubricate, lubricate, lubricate, and take your partner's anatomy as well as your own into account. It MUST be a mutual decision - there can be no coercion or force involved (unless that is part of the enjoyment for you both), and you should talk about it afterward. Communication - honest, open communication - is critical when trying something that is new to both of you and has all sorts of societal 'baggage' around it.

Now that I've gotten that out there... everyone enjoy your weekend! :smile:

question off the subject...call me stupid but was does the DH stand for in all these post? i get BF is boyfriend. oh and congrats to you on your weight loss. keep it up.

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

question off the subject...call me stupid but was does the DH stand for in all these post? i get BF is boyfriend. oh and congrats to you on your weight loss. keep it up.

Hi Bill,

DH = Darling Husband or Dear Hubby...unless you're mad at him, then it could be Darn or Da*n! :smile:

And thanks for the congrats - I absolutely am loving my banded life!

[nkara 0]

that's my first thought when I came across this post... but I'll put my two cents in here.

I was coaxed into trying it years ago by my BF... who I'm still with and I have to say I did enjoy it alot... Now however I can't stand it. It does take some getting used to and an experienced patient person but to each is own. :smile:

[billfresh 0]

Hi Bill,

DH = Darling Husband or Dear Hubby...unless you're mad at him, then it could be Darn or Da*n! :smile:

And thanks for the congrats - I absolutely am loving my banded life!

ok, let me continue the q&a...i see a lot of women saying their "well endowed" significant other need not apply but for the "smaller" guys it's ok. someone define well endowed and smaller for all us guys reading this. come on fellas, you know who you are reading this. getting kinda self conscience here i think.

oh, and my wife of 20yrs says as soon as i am willing to let her shove a cucumber up my a#@ she will bend over and let me have at it. i have to go 1st though. guess that is off the table. don't need a pickled pucker down there.

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

Hi Bill,

ROFLMBO at your wife's response...

ok, let me continue the q&a...i see a lot of women saying their "well endowed" significant other need not apply but for the "smaller" guys it's ok. someone define well endowed and smaller for all us guys reading this. come on fellas, you know who you are reading this. getting kinda self conscience here i think.

Like a lot of things, "well endowed" is very subjective. For a tall woman (I am nearly 6 ft tall) well-endowed has as much to do with girth (thickness) as length. To put it delicately, a narrower, longer endowment might be easier for an inexperienced woman to handle than a thicker, longer endowment.

A thicker endowment (think the width of two 'normal' fingers, perhaps, or more) would be more difficult for ANYONE to handle without 'training'. This 'training', by the way, is a subject I have NO experience with and do not feel qualified to truly comment on.

oh, and my wife of 20yrs says as soon as i am willing to let her shove a cucumber up my a#@ she will bend over and let me have at it. i have to go 1st though. guess that is off the table. don't need a pickled pucker down there.:thumbup:

Actually, I think there are fewer men with 'members' the size of a cucumber than one might think...though my experience is quite limited (I've been married twice, have had very few lovers prior to my 2nd - and last - marriage), I've never met or heard of anyone that size among the ladies in my circle of friends.

One could consider starting with a 'baby' cucumber and moving up from there, but somehow I don't think that's quite what your wife meant...:smile:

I think earlier on this thread, someone mentioned that they started 'getting used to it' by working with their DH's fingers, working from smallest and narrowest to thickest. If your wife recieves pleasure from finger use, then she might be willing to go further...but please, take your time with this and let HER set the pace.

My first husband was not interested in it, and neither was I...it took my current DH raising the subject gently and a period of time before my mind would allow consideration of the POSSIBILITY let alone the reality. Now, it's not an 'everyday' thing, but once in a while we BOTH crave it, and so that's when we indulge.

Hope this helps...glad you felt comfortable enough to ask the question!

Edited October 2, 2009 by EbonyRose
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[billfresh 0]

Hi Bill,

ROFLMBO at your wife's response...

Actually, I think there are fewer men with 'members' the size of a cucumber than one might think...though my experience is quite limited (I've been married twice, have had very few lovers prior to my 2nd - and last - marriage), I've never met or heard of anyone that size among the ladies in my circle of friends.

One could consider starting with a 'baby' cucumber and moving up from there, but somehow I don't think that's quite what your wife meant...

I think earlier on this thread, someone mentioned that they started 'getting used to it' by working with their DH's fingers, working from smallest and narrowest to thickest. If your wife recieves pleasure from finger use, then she might be willing to go further...but please, take your time with this and let HER set the pace.

My first husband was not interested in it, and neither was I...it took my current DH raising the subject gently and a period of time before my mind would allow consideration of the POSSIBILITY let alone the reality. Now, it's not an 'everyday' thing, but once in a while we BOTH crave it, and so that's when we indulge.

Hope this helps...glad you felt comfortable enough to ask the question! :thumbup:

i think the cucumber thing from my wife was just to let me know what i would have to go thru for it to even be considered. hell me and cucumbers shouldn't be used in the same sentence unless we are talking baby gerkins!:smile: ok, i should give myself a little more credit than that but you get my point. oh and if i even start poking around down there the veggies are coming out.:w00t:

[JoJo1 0]

ok, let me continue the q&a...i see a lot of women saying their "well endowed" significant other need not apply but for the "smaller" guys it's ok. someone define well endowed and smaller for all us guys reading this. come on fellas, you know who you are reading this. getting kinda self conscience here i think.

oh, and my wife of 20yrs says as soon as i am willing to let her shove a cucumber up my a#@ she will bend over and let me have at it. i have to go 1st though. guess that is off the table. don't need a pickled pucker down there.:cursing:

I have spent part of the last two afternoons reading these posts and I have to say I can't remember the last time I was this entertained. I guess you can tell it has been slow at work!!!

I don't have much experience with men either but I may have a little to add with the size thing. My first husband surprised me with this many years ago, and I was even more surprised to know I loved it. He was longer and narrower than my current DH. I am unable to enjoy it with my current DH because he is wider and shorter. The length is not the problem, the width is the problem. He once asked me after a few beers to compare his size with my ex, and I did. He was outraged. He said "Don't you know you are supposed to lie about stuff like that"?

I still think that is funny!!! (he doesn't)