Why do women have anal sex?

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

Okay, so I was babysitting for a neighbor of mine. She called to see how the kids were doing. They were sleeping but I asked her if she had anything for a stuffed up nose. I was thinking she might have some sort of decongestant but I didn't see any in the medicine cabinet.

She told me next to her bed, on the night stand, there was a bottle of nose spray and I could use that. ( I washed the tip of the bottle with alcohol) Also on the night stand, was a tube of lube that said it was for anal sex.

It got me wondering why women do this. I could see why a guy would want to do it. I would suppose it's tighter and feels good for him. But does it feel good for her? I can't see it feeling any different than being horribly constipated.

I wish I had never seen that tube of lube!

[gingerbug 3]

Well, I think some people would agree that it feels good. It is something that must be approached with caution and when relaxed, though.

[Willowglen 5]

Many couples like to experiment with things that labeled taboo ot kinky:cool:

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

I did some more reading on it because the whole issue was so confusing for me. Apparently, the G spot can be reached this way. On another site, I read that women have had fabulous orgasms this way. I never knew that was possible!

[Totallytater 1]

No thanks for me. That's where my poop comes out, and since having the lapband that is a sacred activity if you know what I mean. Not messing with that area.

[Carrie_C 9]

I guess it feels good to some women. I had an ex that wanted to do it ALL the time. But I found it painful and gross. TMI, but to me it feels like you are doing #2.

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

That's what I would think too. That's why I said I can't even imagine why women would do that.

There is something to be said about "pleasing your man" but as far as I am concerned, he better use his hand if he wants it that tight.

I was really surprised to read that some women can have G spot orgasms that way.

[Carrie_C 9]

Yes, that surprises me too.

[KikiVal315 4]

although i am open to *almost* anything in the bedroom, and really do believe in "whatever tickles your pickle. live & let live," i dont accept two things in the bedroom: threesomes, and booty love. its just not for me. for one, when i tried to try it, it was too painful, and gross feeling; and he wasnt even 1/4 in! so no thanks for me, ill pass.

[*slim* 2]

I don't care how great the orgasms could be, exit ONLY.

[fat to fit 23]

As long as things are very cleaned up and there is ALot, and I repeat alot of clitoral and vaginal stimulation to relax things up a bit, it can be very erotic. But honestly, fingers and specific dildos for anal play is alot more enjoyable then a big ole penis.

[Carrie_C 9]

although i am open to *almost* anything in the bedroom, and really do believe in "whatever tickles your pickle. live & let live," i dont accept two things in the bedroom: threesomes, and booty love. its just not for me. for one, when i tried to try it, it was too painful, and gross feeling; and he wasnt even 1/4 in! so no thanks for me, ill pass.

I agree. My husband has never asked for it, but it's probably because I let it be known a long time ago that I didn't do that!

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

So far, we have one person who said it might be fun. I am waiting to see if anyone else feels that way. I have turned this into a survey. Please vote.

Let me know if we need another catagory

Edited January 19, 2009 by Oregondaisy

[justme2u 0]

um, yeah. My husband convinced me to try it one time after too many drinks. It hurt so bad, cannot imagine doing this for fun.

[Carrie_C 9]

I voted for the last option, but I think there needs to be one that says something like "I tried it and don't like it" or something like that.