Why do women have anal sex?

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

My hubby had some magazines that he shared with me that talked about it, and he asked me if I would be willing to try it. We were in an adventurous mood, and gave it a shot. It took several "sessions" for both of us to get comfortable, mostly because he was letting me set the pace.

*****TMI Alert*****

Start with asking her if she would let you explore the area with a finger - go easy, slow and let HER set the pace. Don't just launch into it, go into the session thinking about making her as hot and therefore relaxed as possible. Once she's comfortable with your little finger, for instance, go to a slightly larger finger and work up to your thumb. There are also "toys" made especially for that area...check xandria.com for ideas.

If she's comfortable with that, then it's a matter of time and patience. Don't rush it - and definately don't push it, if you know what I mean. It's as much a mental transition as a physical one...good luck!

[BethFromVA 5]

Also if anyone knows how to talk her into another chic that would be FANTASTIC lol.

I say try it with another guy first. If you find that fun and entertaining, then try for another chick. :sneaky:

[BethFromVA 5]

I voted for the last option, but I think there needs to be one that says something like "I tried it and don't like it" or something like that.

And another one: ONLY with my husband and ONLY when drunk. :sneaky:

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

I say try it with another guy first. If you find that fun and entertaining, then try for another chick. :sneaky:

ROFLMBO....:lol:

[Makulafamy 55]

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

You know....you could have her do it to you first. Not trying to be an ASS about it BUTT...(two puns in one sentence)....

For real though, if you let her play around with you...perhaps you can show her its not so bad. After all, your "Gspot" is through the backdoor.

It was just something I always wanted to try. I had to convince my bf that I really did want to experiment. We bought toys...for both him and I...and have tried LOTS of different lube. Water based and this is the best. Do not try the crap they sell at Walmart...no. Anal H20 is one of our favs.

But like someone else recommended...you have to go reallll slow and keep squirting the lube.

It also helps if you use a toy or your fingers right in her "sugarsnap" while you are loving up the chocolate starfish...it feels good and is a distraction.

I have to go wash my mouth out with soap now.

[Andrew6 0]

You know....you could have her do it to you first. Not trying to be an ASS about it BUTT...(two puns in one sentence)....

For real though, if you let her play around with you...perhaps you can show her its not so bad. After all, your "Gspot" is through the backdoor.

It was just something I always wanted to try. I had to convince my bf that I really did want to experiment. We bought toys...for both him and I...and have tried LOTS of different lube. Water based and this is the best. Do not try the crap they sell at Walmart...no. Anal H20 is one of our favs.

But like someone else recommended...you have to go reallll slow and keep squirting the lube.

It also helps if you use a toy or your fingers right in her "sugarsnap" while you are loving up the chocolate starfish...it feels good and is a distraction.

I have to go wash my mouth out with soap now.

heh, well, I'd say yeah that was all well and good but I had a peice of toilet paper rip while I was wiping and I felt violated. So i just don't see that happening.

[misslonglegs 0]

let me tell you,The best organsm for me is anal sex i looooovvvvvve it,You have to be relaxed...

[plain 12]

out of curiousity how in the hell did any of you get talked into it. I've been with my g/f now wife for 8 years and have yet to talk her into it.

Also if anyone knows how to talk her into another chic that would be FANTASTIC lol.:ohmy:

There's an easy enough way that has worked very well for me. It's called "chloroform"...

I say try it with another guy first. If you find that fun and entertaining, then try for another chick.

WTH??

And another one: ONLY with my husband and ONLY when drunk.

Hey, can I buy you a drink? Or 10?

[Andrew6 0]

There's an easy enough way that has worked very well for me. It's called "chloroform"...

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Reminds me of the Far side comic strip I read the other day in the paper. Guys were giving there best pick up line ie. "if I could rearrange the alphabet I'd put U and I together." etc. . . One of the guys put down " Excuse me Miss, Does this smell like Chloroform." The bottom caption said something along the lines of "Roger was never really great with the ladys but once he turned in his pick up line in the Don Juan class he was put under constant survalliance.

[cattoy71 0]

I was just thinking that I could post an article on the art of anal fisting if anyone is interested! Guys? Anyone?

[Andrew6 0]

I was just thinking that I could post an article on the art of anal fisting if anyone is interested! Guys? Anyone?

I've seen informational video on that once lol. Also one of the weirdest things you can see at a porn shop is a big rubber fist.

[cattoy71 0]

Andrew you've just made my day!!!

[Andrew6 0]

Andrew you've just made my day!!!

Have you seen those before? what could one person think of. I mean honestly how do you go from saying well my 2 fists aren't working shoot I could sure use a 3rd one, hey why not make a rubber fist. That is down right insane.

[Carrie_C 9]

I got talked into it by my first boyfriend. I had absolutely no experience before him and I just thought eveyone did it!

[Abbie-pie 0]

It's not MY personal favorite, but if I'm feeling particularly charitable, and extremely relaxed I'll allow it. I'm sure my DH would tell you I'm not a very charitable person, LOL.