BronxieChick 0 Posted January 7, 2009 Ive been a member since November.. and i'm happy to say.. I'm getting banded on the 19th of Jan. Have alot of nerves.. not about surgery.. about afterwards...i dont have my hubbys support in this... so its even harder on my mental state. So I look forward to reading as I have been the past few months and posting on my process. Good Luck to all & to me. Michelle Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plain 12 Posted January 7, 2009 Hi Bronxie......it's tough to have to do this without spousal support. Good thing you can always turn to us online! Good luck, Bronxie! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RestlessMonkey 7 Posted January 7, 2009 Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plain 12 Posted January 7, 2009 Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup: Monkey, quit following me around, LOL!! J/K Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RestlessMonkey 7 Posted January 7, 2009 Monkey, quit following me around, LOL!! J/K LOL I AM A Restless Monkey! :thumbup: I was thinking "Darn...Plain beat me AGAIN" (evil laughter followed) LOL Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BronxieChick 0 Posted January 7, 2009 Hi Bronxie......it's tough to have to do this without spousal support. Good thing you can always turn to us online! Good luck, Bronxie! Thank You Plainy... hope you dont mine the nick/name:biggrin: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BronxieChick 0 Posted January 7, 2009 Is he against it because he's worried about your health? Or for a less palatable reason? If it's your health, I can think of some stuff that might help. If it's for some other reason, well, then just don't let him hold you down! :thumbup: Hi Monk.. He feels i should be able to do this on my own..and that I'm just looking for an easy way out. He is not very openminded on alot of things.. and we hardly agree on anything... and before you ask.. all i can say i was Young and Dumb... hahaha. I also think because i didnt need or ask his "approval" on this.. is why hes giving me a hard time. I wont let him hold me down thats for sure. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
plain 12 Posted January 7, 2009 LOL I AM A Restless Monkey! I was thinking "Darn...Plain beat me AGAIN" (evil laughter followed) LOL Bwa-ha-haha.....my plan is working! Thank You Plainy... hope you dont mine the nick/name:biggrin: Nope, you can call me whatever you want to......and it'll probably still be nicer than what most on here call me! :thumbup: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smsmithart 4 Posted January 7, 2009 i like to follow u to plain to see what you tell the newbies i dont want you giving away our secret cheetos diet... disclaimer do not eat cheetos welcome to lbt my bf is a ass was against surgery from the start..but whatever its done now and i used my savings to pay for it ... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BandedCG 0 Posted January 7, 2009 Best of luck to you Michelle! Hopefully your hubby will come around and be more supportive, but you can do this. Let us know how your surgery goes. I have no regrets. I love my band! :thumbup: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites