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My fantasy is to find all the guys that didn't give me a second look or even a first look (and I know where they are) and flirt big time with them...make them think they have a chance of getting "some" and then for no reason at all say..."no...i changed my mind!" This may sound cruel and heartless but hey....turn about is fair play! Yes! This is revenge!

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Well, I am not worried about the guys. It has never really bothered me MUCH that I didnt have a lot of men, mainly because what I did have I broke up with. So I just left it alone. Plus, I was not willing to open myself up to that. It is the girls that used to be my friends before High School that will have nothing to do with me because I am fat. I just wish they would gain about 30 pounds (no not obese, i dont wish that on anyone) just to know how it feels to be overweight. hmmmm sorry, too sentimental,

*I wish I could stand in a room, and not feel like I have to scan it to see if I am not only the biggest one there, but the youngest also.

*I hope that after I lose the weight, my legs will look like they are walking instead of just rolling over one another (noticed this about a week ago)

*I wish that ALL my stretch marks would disapear, and I would never have to explain to people what these funny marks are on my arms.

*I wish that I could wear a mini skirt out in public

*I can't wait to go buy pretty and sexy underwear

*I want to spend $50 on a shirt because I feel like I deserve it and not because that is what plus sized clothing (that is made for my age) costs

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