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Dont worry about what he thinks! you are doing good weight loss is WEIGHT LOSS! you have good days and bad. this can be emotional rollercoster.....keep up the good work .Get you Protein chew slowly drink lots of Water... and if you can do some exercise that will help with weight loss too. ps and try to eat band friendly foods!

Good luck take care!

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I think that I would and will jump up and down when I reach the 38 pound mark, you should keep up the good work and know in your heart that you can do this, you will not be one of the people that the band doesn't work for because you are trying!!

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Guest j. lynn

I am 6 months out and have lost 38 lbs. I had one fill in April and I was supposed to go see Dr. Bertha one month after. Unfortunately I never made it and yesterday was my first visit to see him since February. Good news I am 16 lbs lighter since then, bad new he was not happy that I never made my fill follow-up. He said he cannot tell if the fill worked or not, when I lost the weight, etc...

Then I was lectured on how I am not eating the right things. I am only eating "band-friendly" foods and not the Protein I am supposed to be eating.

No fill for me - he wants me to see the nutrionist and go back to him in a month.

Now I do feel like the majority of my loss happened in the beggining my recently I have lost 6 lbs - I have had a few up and down moments but the I am happy with my progress.

He actually told me that I could be one of those people who fail with the band!!

Gosh - I thought I was doing good!

Oh and he thinks that my fill is just about right. I have a very hard time with meat and bread and it gets stuck so he says that is restriction

Lauren

I might be the only one, but I kind of agree with him. If you can't eat meat (ie: SOLID protein) very well, then you have restriction. You could try another fill, but it might make you so tight you couldn't get anything down.

You are doing good. You're averaging 1.5 lbs per week, which is the goal.

And honestly, I can see him getting mad about missing your appointments. If you haven't seen him for 3 months, then it would be hard for him to judge how you're really doing.

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