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[riley4183 0]

I am proud too Heather! You HOTTIE you! Heels and everything - walk carefully, LOL!

Tina no men for me too, it kind of scares me that I'm so good with that! I really, REALLY cannot even imagine bringing some guy and all of the associated trauma into my life right now. That doesn't mean I'm not going out dancing & going to parties, etc. with men cause I am, I am just not letting anyone into "my" space right now. And I'm afraid I am going to want to keep it this way! Perhaps it will change when I meet the right one, but I'm in no hurry.

Yes Candra you get a me year too! Just tell him you're taking it, and he gets your brother this year LOL

[Desperate1 1]

Tina - you should write a book - seriously~

[Desperate1 1]

Thanks Riley - I'm taking it - where the heck are you gonna find a man that can keep up with you anyway lol

[swrktp 1]

Candra your brother is Italian and good looking?? I might take him during your me year!! LOL.

I love mediterrean men. Oh wait I said no men this year darn it..........God the greeks and Italians..........OMG. Can't handle blond and blue eyes.........prejudice agaisnt my own kind I guess..........

Riley same with me!! I am a huge flirt and love to have fun but no one in my bubble. I sometimes wonder if I will be able to change that after a year..........I think it is a mixed blessing ........I don't know if I would let my guard down or not with a guy............if not I might have more work to do than I thought...........

Geez I had two losers in my house and I had being controlled by men...........I LOVE my own house and life and coming and going as I please.............I am jaded!! I kicked both men out of my life. One I left the other I put literral on the street at midnight, even put his two cats out and I love animals.................he said to much and when I am done, I am done..............I walk away ............we have never talked since!! ****bad temper Tina, bad, bad temper.....smiling a devilish grin!!"

I did just finish anger managment though cause I have been in my not taking &*(#$ mode since July. A bit worse than usual...............told Robin and she said normal after surgery to go through this phase..............she said your taking your life back and tired of being walked on......I thought she is so right made me think about things and ya know I love anyone that makes me think, really think..........again loved my talk with Robin last week.........I like one on one with her once in awhile............she really does understand some stuff...........made me feel more normal about where I am at...........

My estrogen is going wild right now I am contemplating life way to much I gotta go watch some SMUT on tv or read a mindless magazine!!! Night ladies.......

Edited August 17, 2009 by swrktp

[swrktp 1]

Riley you know when you don't care to settle down with a man is when they start to show up in your life............men seems to be attracted to a woman who isn't interested!! LOL. THey like the chase I think...........but darn it I don't intend to be hunted like some wild beast!! Just notice that when your not interest or when aren't looking something always lands in your lap.............not always something pretty though!! LOL.

And Riley you have a bit of flirt in you!! I saw some of it yesterday. I bet you drive men wild with that and than not wanting them..............girl your a challenge!! Just wait!!! OMG your gonna have your own fan club to rival Dr. Bagg's!!

Edited August 17, 2009 by swrktp

[swrktp 1]

Candra someone already wrote my life "in Ruins"..........LOL. I will have to wait for another title and another burst of estrogen before I script a book................

Like someone told me I write to much and post to much on this forum!! Opps did I say that..........oh dear my hostile angry side sliding out unawares............****chanting don't say to much, go to your happy place......no not disneyland you won't come back. The OTHER (wink/wink)happy place!! "

OMG I need to go I am way to silly tonight!! I need a break from myself.

Now if I had my 1.5cc's back I would not be so ravashingly hungry tonight and would acting more human and civilized for sure. I think you all need to call Dr. Baggs and tell him I am a danger to myself and other's without proper restriction!! I need a lap band 5150!! LOL!! INTERVENTION NEEDED where is that darn needle!! LOL!! ...........nite all!! :-P

Edited August 17, 2009 by swrktp

[tamra. 6]

you guys seriously make me laugh!! I am laying in bed with my laptop and reading this thread!!

YAY HEATHER!!! Your almost there girly! hey maybe we will be banded at the same time

my boyfriend brought something up a few mins ago on the phone...he said if i think about it, none of my friends are being supportive, they all eat and drink and beg me to go out....when i do they say ooohh one night wont hurt you....

maybe i need to stick to you guys and thats all...LOL

[riley4183 0]

Only the WRONG men Tina, I think you know how that goes! I have HORRIBLE taste in men, I like the bad boys too much. I have to get over that. I did get proposed to a couple of months ago, from a friend I have known since I was 19 . . . we have done stuff together but never "dated" - friends ONLY - never even kissed him, and he just decided 2 months ago that we should get married?? I had not even seen him for like 4 months! Stupid. That's the kind of morons I attract!

[riley4183 0]

you guys seriously make me laugh!! I am laying in bed with my laptop and reading this thread!!

YAY HEATHER!!! Your almost there girly! hey maybe we will be banded at the same time

my boyfriend brought something up a few mins ago on the phone...he said if i think about it, none of my friends are being supportive, they all eat and drink and beg me to go out....when i do they say ooohh one night wont hurt you....

maybe i need to stick to you guys and thats all...LOL

You always have us . . .I told my friends that I had fatty liver disease (which I did) and that I had to stop drinking completely (which I did not) so I lied to get them to lay off of me! Your boyfriend is right. I mean, if I feel like I have to lie to my friends so they don't think badly of me, then how good of friends can they be?

[riley4183 0]

Goodnight girls - going to tuck in with my Janet Evanovich book :-)

[roseyyyd1 0]

Wow u lovely chatty ladies!!! lol, I started reading the pages about 7:30, and with getting my Jr for High School ready for first day tomorrow (my baby...he wont let me take him) :sad:,

I finally caught up, & now it looks like you all almost gone!

Ok, first of all, yesterday was such a blast...I smile each time I think about it, REGGIE, truly a hostess with the mostess, even the music was cool! Thank you for having us!We def have a bond that most women would cry for, and we are so real with one another, yet sensitive and so supportive! I will post pics by tomorrow, but wanted to catch up tonite.

HEATHER - you so true, Candra will size us exactly, no saggy baggie babes here! And you, I am amazed from the last time I saw you!!! That would be fun to go to Nordstroms when have the funds. But I WONT DO V. Secret...they have lost me as a costumer when I went seeking for pretty apparel, and not only did they not have my size, but the customer service actually acted like I didnt belong there, so I wont go now!

RILEY - You are rocking the band weight loss, and truly challenge us to MOVE, of course u celebrated by walking, how u got there, u make us proud! Congrats 100 down!

NICOLE - I liked your hair down, and keeping u in thought with Hair loss, but more regrowth, get to the bottom of it!

Your spunkiness (and clothes, hehe) blesses us! Don't forget, MONDAY - Day 1, 30 Day Active! Anyone else welcome to join, how bout if we post our exercise AND steps? Ready to roll!!!

JES - Honey u are on deck, w/ Candra, I am so excited over the new health you will have...and to keep up w/ that young hubby! Keep up the good work/walk cause it is showing!!!

TINA - Special K Loaf-hmmmm, it might even get me cooking, lol. I also identify with you, yes, we gain some liquid weight from surgery, but it drops immediately plus more!!!

So funny how pictures show differently, you & your sag bags, lolol. But, as I always think, you ladies are more beautiful in person! Riley, what a waist! lolol

CANDRA - Our Correct Size Clothes Deputy (CSCD), you keep us in ck! No saggy baggies here, not even in the bras! lol

Cant wait to go shoppin! You are gonna do so well, looks like you and PAM and Tina gonna jump into ONDERLAND soooon!

Sorry this so long, Italian u know like Candra/Tina posts, lol.

PAM, TAMRA, CHRIS, MARIA, CANDI & LACHICA...we missed you allll! PLEASE plan on next Sat if you can...KAISER POINT WEST OFF ARDEN, 11:00 TO 1:00PM, lunch AFTERWARDS!

Love you ladies, have a goodnites rest, some are a dreaming by now, been typing so long, lol. :)

[reggie71 0]

HI LADIES!!!!!! OMG sorry for not posting earlier. Thanks all for coming on saturday. We had a alot of fun and lots of healthy food.

Donna- you are such a gem, ditto on having a bond that some women will die for.

Riley- You are too cute and funny. Thanks for the recipe book. When I host again I promise to make the meals from that book .

Jes- Thanks for the Cali-lillies, they are truly one of my favorite flowers. I asked my hubby to plant them pronto lol.

Nicole- Thanks for the clothing layout! I wish you brought Auds, oh well next time.

Tina- The potatoes and cheese was the bomb! I had to hold myself from eating the rest of what was left lol. The jeans look pretty cute too thanks!

Heather- You are one beautiful chic girl, your significant other better watch out!!!!! LOL. Truly you and the rest of the ladies are very beautiful.

Last but not least my halter sister- Candra- Thanks for the Jeans and the dress you picked out for me:smile2:. I can't be grateful enough for you doing all those dishes.

We really have a kindered frienship here ladies and my fervent prayer is that we continue to be friends for a very long time.

I missed the ladies who couldn't make, hopefully we can get together again soon. We have to plan some activity.

So I bid you all a good night!!!

[AudsMom 2]

OK TINA i feel like i just went to a therapy session, and i am sure parts of it you were tryin to. BUT THEN, omg you CRACK ME UP!!!! I couldn't stop. I wish i could soo call dr baggs and tell him my dear Tina needs a 1.5cc intervention. lol. I love everything about you and dating etc.. you all are hilarious.. but ravishing lol. And chase, understand that one. Dont you also hate when you are taken men chase you but when ur not they dont.. anyone notice that??? Men are interesting just like us:D But tina AGAIN you crrrrrrrracked me up!!!

Tamra, that girlfriend... tsk tsk, kick her. Tell her if she cant be positive your gone, and tell her SABOTAGE in her face! Seriously. That is all she is doin. Oh and about saggy skin.. ok im close to your age.. and, my skin is actually doing BETTER then i thought it would, i notice the more and more i lose the more sucked in it gets, its like the saggy skin has fat in it and as you loose you loose it from there. Yes i have some arm and thigh stuff, but nowhere as bad as i thought, not even enough for surgery to be honest.. My stomach as i was tellin the girls, i dont have to wear any suckin in stuff, and i cant suck anything in. What i got is what i got, which kinda sucks cause i used to be a sucker iner lol.

Candra I say set it for 20.. you should be able to surpass that... after surgery i lost 20 in the first couple weeks, 18 right after surgery.. it like melts off.. litterally.. every time you pee lol you loose a lb! Seriously.. unless your body feels like bein mean. By the way thanks for the texts, we went to the fair with the inlaws, i think the inlaws know EXACTLY where im at.. they keep saying things like " you guys both need your space" and " go on the feris wheel for some smoochin lol, and i said yuck, then she said, something like sorry i even mentioned it or somethin" I think the inlaws know more then we think.. i guess im easy to read.

Fair: was a blast, its SOO NICE fitting in EVERYTHING, even the baby rides for audrey, buti tell ya what they are so not worth 6 dollars bla. Boring! But the smile on her face was worth thestupid money lol. Then i went on the ring of fire.. i didnt go on that since gosh i was tall enough to go on it.. then hammer heads, yeah i went on them all and laughed the WHOLE TIME! Was a blast. I love hanging upside down and feelin tiny in those seats.

Chris reggie is our bra sizer.. but, its in custom bras.. me and riley both wear 36 Es in theres:D LOL.

Donna i think that was the first u guys ever saw me with the hair down.. i just dont do it cause i always feel more secure with it up dont know why , but im really working on this stimulate the scalp stuff, cause im getting close to bein in trouble with my hair.. I dont want it to stop growin for good, so i bought lil clips so no tight pony tail.. and the Shampoo and im rumbin my head like the hair ladies all say to do. my nioxin is on vacation:)

Kaiser meeting donna i will be there.

Fill.. so, im thinkin im going.. if something drastic happens i wont but i think i need like .25... lol today i had a pastie.. lol i know.. ok my inlaws dont know about surgery, and they know ive never had one.. i told them its bread they said no its a potatoe thing whatever well i had 1/2 of a darn pastie WENT DOWN FINE was DELICIOUS Lol. It did fill me for the rest of the day though, thinking about it, thats all i had besides some zucchini and mushrooms.. (3 mushrooms 2 zucchinis) all day long.. AND, i resisted urges ur gonna be proud.. I DID NOT BUY COTTON CANDY!!! My mil bought ur gonna die.. lol 3 bags!!! lol oh my goodness gracious. 20 dollars in suggggggggggggar.

Heather YOU GO GIRL! Sport your new self;)

Riley i know why he proposed.. look at you;) he knew hed never get another chance. Did you guys seriously never date or anything.

Ok im soo exhausted, thanks for the session tina how much do i owe ya, love ya girls.

Oh my goal before halloween hmm that is so hard.. cause some weeks i do easy 1-2 lbs a week and some i dont, hmm i will have to do that later because if i do 20 lbs thats over my goal set by pcp.. but if i do 11 lbs thats only 7 lbs from my goal, and we all know how much harder its getting so i really dontk now.. goodness

Hugs all.. nite!!! HAVE A GOOD MONDAY!

[smallerj 2]

hey there ladies, everyone have a good sunday? Wow chatty is an understatement. I won't even go there on the men subject. Tamra listen to all the good advice take care of yourself first and get rid of that negative energy around you.

The Richmond support group is this wednesday, I normally only go on the 1st Wed but I can go this week. Bev is there to weigh you in if you want a weight check too.

Ok I made bad food choices today. We had a family dinner in SF and of course I over did it. Without going into all the details it was a carb fest. So tomorrow I'm pretty much fasting, and I'm not stopping until I reach 10k.

Oh Nicole I wore the jeans today Cuuute. They are really long on me so I had to wear some high heels, which made me even cute. Thanks a bunch.

[singand_dance 8]

Hey ladies!

We just got back from the movie (Saw District 9... it was pretty good). I didn't have any popcorn. In fact, it didn't even smell good this time, which is way strange. I just had my $6 Water and I snuck a soy milk in... we decided to go as I had just finished cooking some chicken, hadn't even started the rest of dinner. So I had a bit of chicken, a few pita chips in the car, and my soy milk a bit later. lol.