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Durrr, I can't believe I didn't ask my nurse or doctor about this! I should have. I figured I'd wait and see how I felt for some solo play before I moved on to a partner, since I want to see how all the new plumbing works. Its good to hear other's stories!

As for J.J.'s comment, well, I've been known to do the same to my men. On special occasions, when they ask nicely. We're all a little different when it comes to sex. :-D

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Hey Wendy:

Good for you too! I know that I thoroughly enjoy kissing my wife anywhere (and I mean anywhere!) my lips and tongue can reach. We are both uninhibited and the way we interact is mutual.

I am grateful for my wife and all the intimacy we share.

I regret that I offended some of you... but my wife and I both discovered, unexpectedly, a way to enhance our intimacy as a result of the bariatric surgery process. Just wanted to pass it along.

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Dang! J.J. you need to write a step by step instruction manual for men titled " How to Blow Your Woman's Mind." :laugh:

Oh my goodness! I bet your wife is a happy woman. :cursing::rolleyes2::tt1:

As far as the ones that may have been offended...Oh well! They'll get over it. :lol:

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