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I love the tat!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

OMG...that is too funny...how did you do that? OMG, I love it, now you have to post more often!xoxo

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Good afternoon, violets..

Jen just came to pick up Ethan and she was in tears. Joe told her he was tired of her craziness and didn't love her anymore. She is digging into the info on him being unfaithful. She said if that is true she will separate from him. We said we would talk to Joe tonight, but that we couldn't do much as they were both adults and have to think of what is good for Ethan. Personally, I wouldn't mind them splitting up, I have never been comfortable with them being together. But it's not what I want. Ethan is the issue for me now.

I am going on the trip tomorrow and try and forget about things for awhile. But I know it will be here when I get back and that's when it is going to get tough.

Ethan and I went to Kris's and I got my Grady fix. He is 12# 4 oz. now and I got to rock him for a half hour and feel that baby skin and smell that baby smell. It is very therapeutic.

Ok, this is not my day. A bird just crashed into the window. Gotta go see what happened.

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I'm sorry Judy. I know it's heartbreaking :lol:

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Hi everyone!

Kat-you can read me THAT well from my eyes? lol....now that is just downright scary!! LOL

I will post again in the morning before we leave. Have a very restful evening violets!

((((judy)))

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Good evening, Violets..

The good news is, I will survive. The bad news is... the bird didn't. We have lots of doves out back and one of them crashed into the window and bit the big one.

The Bobster and I went out to eat and of course had lots to talk about. Funny how we didn't mention Hawaii once except to say this should have been our happiest meal in a while.

I intend on having a great time and will deal with problems when we get back. As I said to Bob, Joe is 30 years old and an adult. He will have to solve his own problems. I can't solve them for him anymore.

We leave around noon tomorrow after we give the dog sitter directions. We'll stop to see Grady and Kris and then be on our way. I will be able to text all along the way so I'll keep you all with me on the trip.

Off to check on last minute packing items. BBL..

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Yay! We're all leaving for Hawaii w/Judy tomorrow!! She's taking us with her... virtually speaking! Thank you, Judy!!

Sock Hop was a success... loud music, pizza & soda... the kids dance around like maniacs... the parents sit around trying to hear each other over the music... the kids LOVE it! It was my last one... the "lasts" are coming fast & furious now as dd finishes up ES.

G'night gals!! Sweet dreams.

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hi gals

well, here i am... and nothing new... for today anyway. he is going in tomorrow at 11, they made an appointment and it should be all ready. not quite finished up today. .....

i'm glad he is working hard and it is sad that it took all this for him to realize i was not going to be here forever. and i'm glad he is trying to earn the kids back too.

Judy, that is sad, but how long can it go on???

have a great trip

Laura - I say easter! don't forget to let me know gals!

Hi tracyks, how goes it

i lost it all the phne rang, i'm still on pain meds, no more muscle relaxer, but i am still a space case. so hello everyone... 9"15 and i'm going to bed, how sad

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Good evening, Violets..

Last post of the evening for me. Joe is going to be staying here for the week. That's a relief for us worrying about the dogs, but not good for his marriage. Except that maybe a little time apart will be good for them.

We're all packed and ready to head out tomorrow. I'll have all night to worry about what I've forgotten.

I'll keep in touch via the phone and internet if we get it on the ship. It's very expensive and the phone calls are not , so it's a no brainer about internet usage. I'll catch up the trip count when I get back.

Everyone have a great night. I'll post in the morning before we leave.

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Travel Safely Judy...have fun...and all the crap will be home waiting for you, so go forget it! xoxo we love you...get lei'd (too funny Susie)...there are no calories on the cruise ( I have arranged it w/ the chef)...party like it is 1999...dance like a rock star...eat dessert! xooxoxxoox

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Hello everyone! Slow day at work. Went to the lap band support group tonight. They had a girl who is a licensed counselor and was banded herself. She was a cute girl and didn't seem like the type to ever have a weight problem. It was interesting. There were 2 other people there who were not yet banded. She said you had to work through the head issues before dealing with the band. I guess I haven't.

Judy, I hope you have a great time!!!!

Welcome back TRACYKS!!!!!

Laura, who am I in charge of calling? I will stop whatever I am doing to help you deliver the message!!

Suzie, snow????? Wow what a difference a short drive makes!!!

Okay off to do some laundry!!

Jane

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