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Breaking Off An Engagement.....

FRECKLES3

By FRECKLES3, in LAP-BAND Surgery Forums

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MsButterKup23    1

MsButterKup23
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I don't know what to say, I just want to wish you the best and tell you that you need to do what is right for you.

I was in a similiar situation about 4 years ago with a guy that was a total loser. I ended up having to go to IRELAND to get away from him for a while because he was such a control freak. He had another girlfriend and was still calling me in Ireland (my mom gave him the #) and bugging me at 2 am.

Robert (my ex) lost so many jobs during our "relationship" that I lost count. We only had his truck and he REFUSED to let me drive it even though I paid the insurance, gas and truck payment when he was between jobs. He refused to help mow the yard because he was "allergic to grass" so am I, but it had to be done!! He wasn't an alkie but that was bout his only positive.

Try to look at this experience as a learning situation. I believe that God puts us through things for a reason. It may take a while for you to understand why you put up with him for so long, but if you walk away from this situation with the understanding that you learned from it then you didn't totally lose everything.

Less than 3 months later I met my hubby. I will say that I learned from my experience. I value my relationship with my husband more and more everyday. We have 110% total trust. I can do anything I want because he knows that I am not going to cheat on him.

Life is too short to be unhappy. I hope you find happiness soon!!

(((((HUGS))))

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