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Jill -

I have a wide variety of friends (both overweight and thin) and I haven't noticed any particular pattern in sexual appetite with either. They are all over the board.

- Tricia

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*gasps* Randy! What would your kids say if they saw that?!

It's just odd to see a post like that from a guy called My Kids Dad LOL

And I thought Heather was the horndog. Are you from the same neck of the woods as her? Drinking the same Water??

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I'm sorry Jill, but excuse me while I bust a gut laughing.....from this side of THIS fence that is exactly OPPOSITE of what goes on. I'm the one that is over-sexed. It's just that everyone is different...

My hubby could have posted this. Jill, your pattern absolutely does NOT hold true for me. Much to my husband's distress. :cry

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*chuckle* well, it was a theroy ;) From my own personal observations.

As I said, I'm a student of sexuality. I pay a lot of attention to innane details that people wouldn't typically recognize. This is just something that - especially from this thread - caught my eye.

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I could take it or leave it..

I think

I once went almost 5 years without it.. by choice and had no desire to do it..

Now I go out maybe once a month and thats fine by me.

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Susan, the son (25) would go :) . The daughter (23) would go :lalala: I mean, how do you think we managed two kids in the first place? LOL

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Cynthia,

You don't need a partner for that...you should contact Lisa (DeLarla). Bzzz Bzzz Bzzz. She can introduce you to Bob.

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Heather, you can borrow my husband...He never gets enough.

And regarding slumber parties....I LOVE MY TOYFRIENDs!

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Well, dh and I have always had similar libidos. We both love it, but I have found that the better our relationship or the more amount of time we have for each other during the day, the better and more frequent the sex is. I do have friends with problems in their desire/frequency, but I've noticed almost without variation that it points to a problem in their relationship. When they begin to communicate better, relate better to the others' needs, become less selfish, etc., "magically" the sex gets better. I have a friend who's been married for close to 20 years and just recently she and her dh "turned over a new leaf" in their relationship -- he began to treat her as a gift and a blessing -- and he fully confessed to not doing so prior to that in their relationship, and she said the sex is better than it's ever been in her life.

I have also found in my personal circle of friends that if they had pre-marital sex, the carry-over guilt from that affects their physical relationship in marriage for years and years to come. That would not, I don't think, be the case for couples who don't believe pre-marital sex is wrong. I believe there is a spiritual component to this.

(phew) sorry for the novel!

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it has been over a year for me!! Hubby moved out last Jan and it was 2 months before that.....I wonder if i want him back or just the incredble sex we had every day????

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