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I had my first non aided (by me) Orgasm (I am 35) last week

So yeah.. I wonder if its a NSV.. ??

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"*twists toe in dirt*"

Okay, Donali. Exactly HOW cute are you?

Mismatched? That's for sure! I'm a morning girl but he's always at work when I wake up. Did I mention I love Slumber Parties? Bzzzzzz.

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Me: Wisconsin

Hubs: Virginia

Yea, so. No, not since New Year's :couch2:

Hitatchi is a girl's best friend. (Not to say Slumber Party's aren't but...well, Hitatchi is *my* best friend.)

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:) :Banane46: :Banane56: :couch2:

I admit it....I'm a horn dog. I want it as many times a day as I can get it!!

:fruitsex: :Banane46: :Banane56: :clap:

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I am so suprised to read this thread and see Heathergurl hasnt replied yet hehe :couch2:

Sex....umm whats that?

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After 20 years of marriage, our friends STILL call us 'the rabbits' ... 'nuff said?

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Guest Kira M

Thank you sir, may I have another? :eyebrows:

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I am so suprised to read this thread and see Heathergurl hasnt replied yet hehe :couch2:

Sex....umm whats that?

I have NO idea how I missed this one!

As I am SURE you all know... I LOVE IT!!!

I think I need 2 husbands though, because mine just doesn't want it as much as me. I have NEVER heard of a man refusing sex because he is tired. Makes me want to kill him when he pulls that shit!

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mine just doesn't want it as much as me.
LOL...I hear you on this one. When I first met my husband I told him that I've always been the one in the relationship that wanted more sex. He replies with "Oh, you don't have to worry about that!" Well...let's just say...I've had to tell him on many occasions that he needs to eat those words!!

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"Oh, you don't have to worry about that!" Well...let's just say...I've had to tell him on many occasions that he needs to eat those words!!

Okay, I don't mean to get all philosophical here, but I'm kinda a student of sexual behavior (don't ask, just pretend you didn't read that), and I see a definte pattern here that I'd like to ask about. (I see it in myself as well.)

I could have sex every day of the week without fail. I have been like that since my late teens, and I'm 41 now. It sounds like, from the ladies who've replied, I'm defintely not alone in that.

However.

I have lots of thin(ner) friends who absolutely do NOT share this desire - actually, none of my friends that are within 20 pounds of their ideal weight share this desire. Hmmm.

As in all things studied, there are, of course, no absolutes here. But I think it's fair to say (in my experience...in my experience...) that those of us with on-going, former or current weight issues have a higher sex drive that all of those skinny..er....thinner friends of mine.

Anyone have similar experiences? Comments?

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I'm sorry Jill, but excuse me while I bust a gut laughing.....from this side of THIS fence that is exactly OPPOSITE of what goes on. I'm the one that is over-sexed. It's just that everyone is different...

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