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Need Lap Band Buddy / Mentor Getting Surg. Date Thurs.



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I've lurked around this site for about 7-8 months now. Pretty much since I made the decision to get banded, through my 6 months for insurance approval and now up to my last appointment (this Thursday) before I get my surgery. Hoping to have the surgery around Dec. 8th.

I have struggled w/weight since about 14 years old. Have always been an active person, just overweight. Was diagnosed with PCOS just over a year ago. It was my OBGYN who suggested this surgery. I am having the surgery because I want to be healthy, I want my life back and most importantly, I want to have a child.

I think a buddy/mentor would benefit me. I don't personally know anyone else who has had this procedure. It would help me to have someone to answer or give advice on my questions and concerns.

Here's the thing. I am not a rah-rah, smiley face every other word, frilly, jesus loves you, needlepoint kind of girl. No offense to anyone who is, I am just not that way. I respect a great sense of humor and a true and honest NO BS type of attitude.

If anyone thinks they might be a good match as a mentor for me, it would be much appreciated.

Thanks for your time.

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Hi, congratulations on making this big decision to becoming a healthier new you. I had surgery back on 07/11/08 and have lost apprx 80lbs so far. I've still got a good ways to go, but I know now that i will get there. I had surgery in Mexico and I can remember afterwards having so many questions and concerns. If I can help you in any way, just let me know. Take care.

Lisa

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Hi...who did you're surgery in Mexico? I'm scheduled in Monterrey next week and would love to hear from someone else how has been there and had good luck! Thanks!

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I had the surgery done on Friday, July 11, 2008. I thought I would be fine to go back to work the following Tuesday, but I made it 1/2 day and left and didn't come back until that next Monday, so I was out about a week. I had never had surgery before, so I was in for a shock with the gas alone. I had it done in Mexicali, Mexico by Drs. Abril and Ham and of course I was nervous, but it was a wonderful experience. I work at a hospital, so I know the ropes a little bit and they were very professional and the facility was beautiful. I would definitely recommend it.

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Yeah, I think that is to be expected. You will feel so much better and so glad you took that step to a healthier new you once it's over. Good luck!!

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