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I decided to go to the mall and get some new clothes as my last set of new clothes is getting saggy baggy. I was in Macy's (great sale) and found some really cute work and casual clothes in the "regular" women's section. I had to go to another floor to look for pajamas and walked through the plus size section. I teared up when it hit me that I do not have to shop in the plus size department anymore. I tried to explain this to my DH and bless his heart he smiled and said that was great but I don't think he got it. Just wanted to share my little NSV with people who would understand.

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Lala:

I can totally relate to the tears flowing with joy! Congratulations.

I started at 324 pounds on April 23, 2007. On April 23, 2008 I was under 200 for the first time in 20 years. I not only had tears, I was actually sobbing. Silly that some of us can be such mushbuckets.

Keep up the good work.

Sue

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WTG both of you. I cannot wait to be under 200 and to not have to shop plus size anymore!!!! Congrats on all of you victories :( Good luck!!!

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I got a little tear just reading this. It gives me something to look forward to. Keep up the good work!

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That is fantastic! And yes, we DO understand - we've either been there, or are on our way....let the tears flow!

Yay you!!!

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I decided to go to the mall and get some new clothes as my last set of new clothes is getting saggy baggy. I was in Macy's (great sale) and found some really cute work and casual clothes in the "regular" women's section. I had to go to another floor to look for pajamas and walked through the plus size section. I teared up when it hit me that I do not have to shop in the plus size department anymore. I tried to explain this to my DH and bless his heart he smiled and said that was great but I don't think he got it. Just wanted to share my little NSV with people who would understand.

I haven't been banded yet, but I can only IMAGINE how you must have felt...I teared up just reading your post! I am so sick of my wardrobe...I'm so sick of wearing everything LONG and BIG....I cannot wait to shop in regular stores instead of Avenue, Dress Barn Woman and Lane Bryant! I swear, the first thing I'm buying when I reach goal is a pair of nice jeans and a fitted, waist length top...not covering up that booty no more...LOL!

Congratulations on your loss...you really give me such hope! Thank you:biggrin:

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I decided to go to the mall and get some new clothes as my last set of new clothes is getting saggy baggy. I was in Macy's (great sale) and found some really cute work and casual clothes in the "regular" women's section. I had to go to another floor to look for pajamas and walked through the plus size section. I teared up when it hit me that I do not have to shop in the plus size department anymore. I tried to explain this to my DH and bless his heart he smiled and said that was great but I don't think he got it. Just wanted to share my little NSV with people who would understand.

Even if he doesn't get it, WE do. Or will. But we do. :) Congrats, Lala, you deserve it. :(

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That was definately my happiest moment too! Almost a year since I made that change over it still hits me sometimes... it changes the way you see yourself for sure.

Today I went shopping for clothing in size small and 6!

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I cannot wait for the day when I am back down below 200. My surgery is on Tuesday, November 11 and reading your post gives me hope!!!:rolleyes2:

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This is so exciting!

Congratulations!:rolleyes2:

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Thats awesome and I still haven't totally grasped the fact that when I see something in a magazine I can just go in and pick my size right off the shelf.. I don't have to settle for what I considered ugly clothes in the plus section.

It's the best feeling.

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Great thread! I've only just begun my journey. I have just recently made the decision that lbs (hmm...anyone ever notice that "lbs" for "lapband surgery" is the abbreviation for "pounds"?) is right for me. Just last week I was thinking about things that would change with the lapband, and I thought of how much I hate my clothes. I hate them because they're not me. My clothes are just camouflage for my fat. Don't get me wrong--I like myself--my self-esteem is not dependent on my weight (at least not anymore--after much 12 step work and therapy!), I'm tired of picking clothes based on what I can find to fit and not based on what I like. I can't wait to donate my "fat" clothes to charity!:D

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I, like everyone else, cannot wait to be able to wear clothes that don't come from the plus section of a store. I still haven't figured out why everything sized over 16 is huge flowery prints and big bows. I will be so happy to never shop at Lane "Giant" again! :D

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Hello there!

I was wondering. Have you been banded yet? If so, how long before you returned to work? Are you an RN? I am working in the ICU and so far I've only requested 1 week off of work because I do not know exactly how much time I will need. let me know what your experience is?

dolphin:wink_smile:

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