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Aww thanks, your great.

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that was awsome!!!!!!!!!!!! I just wanna dry my eyes, because that hits home, you know i've been on this just brousing around and reading everything that everyone writes about the process, wants, and needs, but i was forced to register after reading those beautiful words, you realy inspired me to actually move on with this whole thing, recently i just had spinal surgery, not from an accident, but due to the weight issues, now i never thought i had any doubts in myself, or self esteem issues, but after reading this, all i wanna do is, take family pictures(havent since i grad. highschool) buy clothes at the mall(not a specialty store) play baseball again, and enjoy the rest of my life before its gone.....now im just 31 and i shouldnt be falling apart like i am, but this weight is killing me......! I am making an apt to see my dr this coming week and see if we can get the ball moving.

Thanks for the inspiring words.....i needed that!!!!:mellow:

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Oh wow, now you're making ME choke up!! I love your goals as well. I think they're very important to have and be realistic about.

The best of luck with your journey, Valley. :mellow:

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Great post. I have to buy a new wedding ring or get mine resized it fell off the other day. My fingers stayed thin, and now they are even thinner.

I also just want to be healthy and look "normal" again. Not the fat lady thing.

Hot body, hey those days are mostly gone. A lukewarm one is good LOL.

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