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Hi...

My name is linda...I've been approved for lap band surgery and my surgery date is Nov 14.

I've been "going through the process" since January. I thought I wouldn't get the surgery until next year. So I'm a little shocked that it is happening so soon. But I'm happy!

I found out three days ago, and ever since I've been eating like crazy. I guess it's the "Last Supper" syndrome. I weigh 265, the highest weight I have ever been in my entire life. I had two babies fourteen months apart, and it took a real toll on me. But most of my weight gain is due to overeating. Like most of you I have been on diets most of my life. The most I ever lost was 40 lbs five years ago. I dieted (low fat) and exercised (walking and lifting weights), but couldn't maintain it and gained it all back and quite a bit more.

My surgeon is Dr. Bonanni in Reading, PA.

I'm a sahm with four children. I look forward to reading the posts here and posting myself!

Linda

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Hi Linda!

Congratulations on your approval, and good luck with your surgery! I know what the waiting is like, and then when you get your date all of a sudden it seems like it's too soon. I waited a year and now it seems like it was no time at all.

I'm a mom of small children myself, and one of my challenges now is convincing the younger one that I don't want to eat that goldfish she's so eager to feed me. Or brownie, or potato chip, or whatever. :o

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CONGRATULATIONS!!! I am 10 days post op and can relate to the long process of jumping through all those hoops to get to the point of getting a date. I also know about the eating after I got my date. my mom and I ate out almost every day for lunch( the kids were in school) I had this thought that I need to eat everything that I wouldn't be able to eat again. And thank god I didnt gain anymore weight. soon you will be on the other side, and be on your way to a happier healthier you. good luck

christina:cool:

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Thanks for the welcome. :o

I'm trying to prepare myself...I've been taking Vitamins for some time now, hoping that if my nutrition is good I'll heal better. I've also started to investigate the Protein mixes.

But I am really excited and I can't wait. :P

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