kristilaw 0 Posted October 7, 2008 I am very new to this whole process, but have been gobbling up all of the info that I can over the past couple of days here and online...I am 32 years old, with three children (aged 3, 2, and 1) Unfortunately, since they are all adopted, I cannot blame the weight on three back-to-back pregnancies!! :crying: I lost my father earlier this year and I am scared to death to ever have my children feel the same sadness/anger because I didn't do everything that I could to be happy and healthy...anyway, I am dying to get more info (especially from those in the Richmond VA area or other stay at home moms) My biggest concern is if I will be able to care for my children adequately in the weeks following banding/should I get a nanny for that time. I have my informational seminar on 10/8. At this point in time, I am ready to move forward and begin my new life! I see that this is such a great resource/support site! Thanks already!! :thumbup: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RestlessMonkey 7 Posted October 7, 2008 Congratulations! I can tell you that most of us are restricted to lifting no more than 15 pounds for the first 2-3 weeks post op (each surgeon is different but that's fairly standard) so yes, help is definitely indicated! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tamihott 0 Posted October 7, 2008 I am a stay at home mom who works part time at night when my kids are sleeping. I must say I have a two year old and it has been difficult not to pick her up. She can get into her car seat on her own, but I imagine with a 1 year old that may be somewhat more difficult. I think you may want to have some help. I have a restriction of no lifting for 4 weeks. You won't want to be doing any heavy lifting anyway. You need time for your body to heal. Good luck! Tamara Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
