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I have been going through SO much drama with my ex. He is pretty much stalking me now and playing really dirty. He never is around long enough for me to have the sheriff there to take him.

My year post op appointment went fantastic yesterday. They asked me to speak on a panel of 5 people who have been successful with the band. I am the only teen to speak. They also took my resume but Dr. Horgan was out of town. So hopefully I will be getting a phone call next week about an interview :]

I'm just super stressed. My hives are back but not as bad. I'm just going to try to make it through the day peacefully.

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Hollie, I'm so excited for you!

I'm also worried about you with the ex. This can get out of hand really fast. My suggestion would be to call your sherif's dept. and speak with an officer about some things you might be able to do. Find out if it's something you can just get them to be aware of so if something happens they have a heads up about it. I really am not trying to scare you but you really need to make sure you stay safe. Be proactive about this. They, unfortunately, may not be able to do a thing, but they can advise you. They may also tell you to call the moment you think you see him, whether he's there long or not. If they can find him, they'd be able to talk to him and advise him (to leave you the hell alone!) as well. Call them. See what they AND you can do about this. Do it while there isn't a crisis and you're calm. Stay very calm and give them the facts. They'll go from there.

I hope the Dr.'s office gives you a call for an interview! That would be fantastic!

Best wishes, Hollie. Take care!

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Thanks for being worried. :]

I filed a police report last week. So if he shows up here, he will go to jail. He gave the key back to my apartment and signed his name off the lease. Mamma didn't raise no fool. So, i had my dad come re-key the locks. I think I am pretty close to having it all be over and done with. We are waiting for the deposit back from the last place we lived. He thinks he should get half but he's dreaming. My mom has been talking with him (because for some odd reason he listens to her) and says after the money is dealt with, it will be over for good.

Funniest thing in the whole world, he was looking up 'plus size ass' on my computer. lol

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Glad to hear your 'momma didn't raise no fool'...it sounds like you are taking precautions. Good. Just remember to keep vigilant!

An interview would be fabulous! here's hoping!

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Sounds like you're on top of it, Hollie. I hope I didn't go overboard. When I hear of things like this, I tend to get all "mama bear" and start spouting advice! Sometimes it's not wanted. Sometimes it's needed. I'd always rather say something and have the person on top of things, like you, than not say anything and hear later that something horrible happened that could've been avoided. Anyway, hope you didn't take offense.

That's weird about the computer! Makes you wonder!

Any news on the interview yet? Probably too soon! LOL!

Take care!!

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