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risky......anyone ever have a threesome?

ksill18

By ksill18, in The Gals' Room

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ksill18    0

ksill18
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Seriously...??? It's a message board, it's a little difficult for people to read "Tones". Why don't you take it easy. For someone who is open to SHAGGING other people while in a commited relationship you really should learn to lighten up a bit. As myself also being one of "These" people, I didn't take offense to the way it was written, because I understand that 1. she's new to the scene, and 2. IT'S A MESSAGE BOARD AND YOU CAN'T READ TONES OR BODY LANGUAGE. Relax dude, seriously.

WELL SAID!!!!!! Thanks for that.

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Esmeralda    2

Esmeralda
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I think its a great thread, different strokes for different folks we are all different and have different ways of thinking. Good luck everyone!!!

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BethFromVA    5

BethFromVA
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Great reply!!! :wub:

:wub:

I just figured if he's willing to share, then I'm guessing he's working really hard to find just the right guy for his lady.

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Renob    1

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I just figured if he's willing to share, then I'm guessing he's working really hard to find just the right guy for his lady.

Im sure he does!!! :tt1:

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msnenequeenie14    0

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I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it at all. My husband and I have done it before, just make sure you are both doing it for the right reasons and the same reasons. My husband and I are very much in love but we are also best friends and that helps a lot. I didn't have that problem of him paying too much attention to her becasue I wanted us both to enjoy it so I didn't keep score. I did notice that he was very attentive towards me and made sure I was totally comfortable 100%. And just a side bar, the first one we had lasted 11 hours, and a few times he took me into another room without her and made love to me then we rejoined me. That sent my confidence and comfort through the roof! Really talk with your wife and make sure she wants to do it for the enkoyment and freakiness of it and not to see how you might react and interact with another woman! ENJOY!

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Carrie_C    9

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I don't think there is anything wrong with doing it at all. My husband and I have done it before, just make sure you are both doing it for the right reasons and the same reasons. My husband and I are very much in love but we are also best friends and that helps a lot. I didn't have that problem of him paying too much attention to her becasue I wanted us both to enjoy it so I didn't keep score. I did notice that he was very attentive towards me and made sure I was totally comfortable 100%. And just a side bar, the first one we had lasted 11 hours, and a few times he took me into another room without her and made love to me then we rejoined me. That sent my confidence and comfort through the roof! Really talk with your wife and make sure she wants to do it for the enkoyment and freakiness of it and not to see how you might react and interact with another woman! ENJOY!

11 hours???!!! WOW!!!!

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BethFromVA    5

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Sounds like many of these experiences are one guy with two girls. I don't mean this to sound as snide as I know it will in print, but how many of these "giving" men are willing to have a second man in the bed rather than a second woman?

I've tried it twice with the same partners -- my then long-time boyfriend, and my best male friend. I was fortunate that the issue wasn't ONLY a two-woman-one-man recommendation. And for the record, for me it was much better as a fantasy than the real thing.

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BellaBean    0

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Mine was with 2 guys. I am up for 2 women but 2 men is more my liking. My husband is secure enough with himself to have another man around in sex. Its not like he is receiving anything from the other male. Thats my rule: the guys cant touch sexually. Only me! LOL

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