als74 1 Posted January 13, 2009 I agree. Well, my hubby and I do make love (very tender and completely in to each other), but most of the time it is just sex. I don't want to give too much away, but my hubby and I have had "wonderful times with other couples." One couple even had bariatric surgery! I got to ask them all sorts of questions. It was great! I caution though- there has to be a lot of trust, and mutual feelings about sharing. One person pushing another is no fun! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites