female only Sexual Peak

[Guest Leslie2Lose]

See now I am just the opposet. Now that I am getting some and horny as heck. lol I feel bad because my mom dosent feel the desire to have sex anymore. I wish she did. her and my dad would be so much happier.

LOL I am actualy trying to find some porn for my parents...I know we have a totally weird relationship but it works for us lol:rolleyes2:

Cerrin I don't even want to go there. I'm adopted, therefore in my twisted mind my parents didn't ever have to have sex for me to be their daughter. Ignorance is bliss - LOL

[Boo Boo Kitty 3]

Cerrin I don't even want to go there. I'm adopted, therefore in my twisted mind my parents didn't ever have to have sex for me to be their daughter. Ignorance is bliss - LOL

lol....no there is some weird thinking Leslie, but hey if it works for ya! :blushing:

[Guest Leslie2Lose]

It works splendidly. There are mental images I don't want to conjure up, ever. When I was a teenager I remember mom telling me they tried and tried and tried (several times a day) to have kids....WHOA! WAY TOO MUCH INFO THERE MOM!

Of course my children will find it discusting that old people have sex (once I let them know about it - I think age 25-30 would be great! Great time for the sex talk). They think I'm ancient now by the time they are teenagers I'll be a dinosaur! I'm officially "Old" now. LOL

[tapshoes 2]

It works splendidly. There are mental images I don't want to conjure up, ever. When I was a teenager I remember mom telling me they tried and tried and tried (several times a day) to have kids....

Do you mean my parents had S E X? (spelled out and whispered) Nope, not possible. I was the result of immaculate conception, or stork delivery or alien invasion or something. Not my parents, never. No. No siree. Never.

[Guest Leslie2Lose]

Exactly Tapshoes, Exactly. We must keep our mental health up to par!

[*slim* 2]

Do you mean my parents had S E X? (spelled out and whispered) Nope, not possible. I was the result of immaculate conception, or stork delivery or alien invasion or something. Not my parents, never. No. No siree. Never.

:scared2: My mom tried to make me believe she only had sex once (she only had that discussion with me after I was grown).

I guess part of the problem between me and DH is because I don't have the desire anymore. In my 20s, I was thin and all about figuring out what sex was supposed to be like. When I got married, we had lived together for years, sex was a chore to me. My husband loves kinky clothes. Well, I see me in those clothes (picture hooker, porn star, trashy pop stars ) and get completely turned off. See through clothes on a short, 250 lb woman is just not sexy:blushing:. I understand that if he is willing to see me that way that I should rejoice:thumbup:. I just couldn't:bored:. I couldn't get past that I knew what I looked like. I am hoping that as I lose weight, that I will find that part of me that used to want sex again. I know my DH would LOVE:drool: for her to show up. Your stories give me hope that will happen. Thanks.:biggrin:

[Carrie_C 9]

I know what you mean about it being a chore.

[sleepygirl 2]

I'm 41 and been "peaking since about age 19. I think it is different for different people. Enjoy it. It will keep you young

[newhope4me 0]

I've read that the more you get it, the more you want it. To keep with that suggestion, before we go on a weekend away i masturbate more, to encourage my body to want it even more for the time we have, lol.

I am looking forward to next week. we are going to nashville for a week, just the two of us. the days will be busy as hell for me, but im hoping the nights are busy for both of us!

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

All I can tell all of you is once you hit menopause, your desire will go down the tubes right with your orgasms. From everything I have read, hormones are okay to take, as long as they are bioidentical. They make

not only sex, but life livable again.

[tapshoes 2]

All I can tell all of you is once you hit menopause, your desire will go down the tubes right with your orgasms. From everything I have read, hormones are okay to take, as long as they are bioidentical. They make

not only sex, but life livable again.

I'm glad that wasn't my experience!!! Total hysterectomy at an early age = menopause early. I certainly have NOT lost my desire, nor experienced any negative impact on orgasms. Indeed, for DH and I, our sex life just keeps getting better...without any worries of pregnancy, so we are much more spontaneous and fun.

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

You are so lucky. You don't have any problem with dryness? Do you have your ovaries?

You are not on any form of HRT?

[tapshoes 2]

You are so lucky. You don't have any problem with dryness? No. Do you have your ovaries? No

You are not on any form of HRT? Absolutely not; my cancer contraindicated HRT.

I'm assuming those questions were for me...

[Oregondaisy 2,021]

Wow! Before I got on HRT, having sex felt like I was having it with sandpaper. The dryness was so uncomfortable. I am really glad you don't have to take them. They are risky but I am not ready to live like an old lady so I am taking the risk.

[DivaStyleCoach 89]

Hey Ladies,

powder Room Gone Wild is now officially my favorite spot on LBT:lol:

I am MUCH more *ahem* intense in my 40's than I ever was in my 20's or 30's. I think a lot of it has to do with me being more confident - I know now that no matter what my size, I am, and will continue to be HOT!:embaressed_smile:

I am much more adventurous now than ever before...some of that I can attribute to my DH, who is way more experimental than my previous hubby. He loves me the way I am, but encourages me through my band journey - he says he's gonna love the new me too, and wants the extra "benefits" of having an even hotter wife to play with.

Things I do now would have scared the life out of me at 20-something or 30-something, and I have someone I love and trust to do it with. I think that's the key - you need to have a lot of trust for your partner and in your partner, and they in you, in order for your kinky side to show.

Who wants to be rejected? Not me - and certainly not him!