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I'm LeAnn. I'm 27 and I live near Frederick, MD. I've been married for 7 years (as of yesterday :w00t:) and we have one son, who is 3. I've just started the process of getting a lap band and I feel entirely overwhelmed. I've been approved for my surgical consults with Dr Scot Currie and I'm in the process of getting my psych eval and such. I have my first appt with the surgeon's office on Friday and I have no idea what to ask! I know (from research on the internet) that he has a good track record and he's pretty darn cute. :cool2:

I'm 5'2 and 255 (BMI is 46%). I considered both banding and bypass, but I feel banding is the nest option for me. I'm young and this is both able to be reversed and it doesn't interfere with pregnancy, should we decide to have another child.

The only people I've told about this surgery is my husband and my parents. And, honestly, the only reason I told my parents is because I plan on letting them keep my son. :mellow: I don't plan on telling anyone else. My MIL would patronize me (despite desperately needing the same surgery, IMO) and it's just no one else's business. This is something I'm doing for my health and so I can be the mom I want to be to my son and hopefully have another baby one day. I don't want to be a fat mom forever. :wink2:

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I would be happy to be here for you to bounce questions off of as needed. I was banded on 4/19/08 and as of today have lost 42 lbs. I have a goal of 100 total pounds to lose. I'm 5'1" and started at 230 lbs. Our only difference is age as I'm 47, and I have not had a problem telling others. It is not their business, but I am so proud to have had this change in my life!!!! Good luck to you and I'm here if you would like to visit!

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Hi Leann! Welcome to LB talk...I am 28 years old, two kids and just got banded on 7/29/08..I actually lived in Maryland for 5 years. We lived in Hagerstown and I worked in Frederick. We miss it up there! If you have any questions always feel free to ask them. I had a heck of a time getting approval from insurance and stuff..but once the ball got rolling, the surgery came quick. Take care and we'll talk to you soon!

Nicole

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Hi... I was banded just over 1 year ago... I am down 85 lbs and I feel great !!! I would be happy to help you in whatever way I can. Best wishes for success !!! Lo

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Hi there...good luck in your process. My band date is October 13, so I don't have too much advice to give, but it seems like someone on here always has an answer to my questions!

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I was banded by Dr. Currie on 07/28/08. He was excellent.. and all went very well!! If you have any questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to get in touch. You're making a great choice.. you won't regret anything.. and you will be a much healthier person.. promise!

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Hi LeAnn....My name is Lee Ann...you sound alot like me.... I am 37 years old. Mother of 3 year old twins... I have not told anybody but my mom and my husband.. I am having my band placed this Friday. I am so excited. Trying to get thru this liquid diet !!!! Uhggg... But i am

determined to do it !!!! Keep in touch !!!

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I'm 45 and my surgery date is Feb 25, 2009. I"m excited and can't wait to begin this journey. I"m hoping i can stomach those Protein Shakes for7-10 days. I've only found chocolate that I don't mind drinking. It would be great hearing from anyone that has any adivce or opinions. Thanks so much!

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