I told my husband about my decision to have surgery.

anniemayo · July 23, 2008

Hi I haven't told my husband yet as I am sure it will be a money thing with him too. Here in Switzerland insurance will not pay so I'm doing it on my own without his knowledge. I have told my best friend and she is very supportive but I will need you guys! I'm scheduled for sept.11th.......a bad omen?

aprilapple · July 23, 2008

hey travellady,

Exactly! I think that we r saying the same thing. U know him better than anyone. Maybe its just his way. I hope u didnt take offense to my previous post. Did I sound too straight forward? I just want to keep you encouraged. God knows u all keep me going and focused. I know that everything is going to turn out just fine.

curvesincali · July 23, 2008

Travel...

My dh is one of thodeb unexcited types too. What works for me is not mention it at all. When he hearsb about it again we will be heading to the hospital.

If this was for him.... I would hear lapband all day everyday... Non-stop updates.

Curves

TravelLady48 · July 24, 2008

April:

Yes, we are saying the same thing and no offense is taken. I really do appreciate all the support I am being given from this site. I feel all y'all understand the problems each one of us going through and we are in this together. :biggrin2::frown:

Curves: Since my dh is not talking about the surgery, I'm not discussing it anymore. He knows he cannot get me to change my mind, especially since it is for my health.

Anne the Travel Lady