Jealous husbands and lovers

hopefull · May 18, 2005

Have anyone experienced jealous husbands after weightloss and how did you deal with it?

bandit · May 18, 2005

HAHA u came to the land of happily married bliss here Hopeful!! I am one of the few single girls. Actually sweetie, there are quite a few threads here on this exact topic. All these women have their wonderful "DH"s (Darling Husbands) omg **gagging** JUST KIDDING GIRLS. Ur all so blessed. Im gonna bump u somethin now hon.

paula · May 18, 2005

Hi Hopeful!

jealousy usually occurs from insecurity - so make him secure by keeping him a

H A P P Y man

vinesqueen · May 19, 2005

I dunno Paula, my ex- was very jelous, and insecure. Turns out he'd been cheating on me our entire relationship. There was nothing I could ever do to make him feel secure.

TrishS · May 19, 2005

All I know is my DH is happy with the choice I made.. He has been involved all the way!

Infaith · May 19, 2005

Hey Bandit...I hadn't really thought about it, but you're right. Don't think there are a lot of us single gals here...a few, but definitely NOT the majority.

I'llsucceed · May 19, 2005

I must admit that I am so happy that I am going through this BY MYSELF & don't have to deal with anyone elses thoughts/feelings or opinions. After I get my confidence back my next boyfriend/husband will be a very happy man:0)

HarleyNana · May 19, 2005

Well, after 36 years, if he does have a problem, then it's just that, his problem. I did this for me, not my DH, and he knows it. I've been a people pleaser and family peacemaker for all these years, by golly, now it's my turn and they can kiss my grits.