Jump to content
×
Are you looking for the BariatricPal Store? Go now!

Losing weight, No PBing, Slime, or Stuck



Recommended Posts

Am I normal??? I am losing weight with out any thing everyonoe talks about.......no PBing, No Slimming, No getting stuff Stuck. I can eat anything and I do mean ANYTHING with no problems. I can eat an entire Mcdonald's salad including the grilled chicken that comes on the top with no problems.

I go next Thursday to get a fill if needed.........I'm going to say I need a fill just because I can eat alot and I fill like I shouldn't be since everyone else says they can't eat but a bite or two, but my head tells me "Hey your losing weight so leave it all alone".

Anyone else not have any problems like myself and can eat a whole salad and still losing weight??? I do keep my calories around 1300 to 1400 a day.

Need your input PLEASE :blink:

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

If you're losing weight and you are happy with how fast you're losing, you could wait to get a fill. People get fills because they are eating too much and not losing weight. Just because it's time for a fill doesn't necessarily

you need one. When you hit a plateau, you will probably want a fill.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I believe that how tight you are is a personal choice. Some prefer to stay a little loose and eat a little more and others choose to be tight and eat less. As long as you are losing weight and happy with your rate of weight loss, I don't think you should compare yourself to others and do something because they do. This is your life and you get to decide what is right for you.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Please do yourself a favor, leave well enough alone. You, IMO should only get a fill when you stop losing weight. Believe me when you first feel any one of the things you mentioned, you will regret that fill. I have been through each thing you are talking about and it it NOT pleasant. You learn very quickly, what not to do. However, each food as well as the particular time of day it is presents different results. I've had my band for 9 months approx and every day is a learning experience. I'm still trying to figure this thing out. The good news is that I have lost over 50 lbs and it is not coming back. This has been a roller coaster for me. Things like being to tight, pbing, sliming, and let's face it real pain at times. So, if you are still losing weight, leave well enough alone. Get your fill when you really need it. Hope this helps you make up your mind. Me, I'm the one who has to learn things the hard way. I wish that wasn't my truth, but it is.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Lundy Lane,

I am just like you. I was banded on April 8, I have had 1 fill on May 19 and I have never really experienced pb'ing or sliming. I am losing weight too. At 6 weeks the doctor gave me a fill because I lost most of the weight in the first 3 weeks. I went back 5 weeks later on June 24 and I had lost 10 more lbs. I wanted a fill because I felt that I was eating too much and I didn't think I was getting any message from the band. He wouldn't do it. He will not give fills if you've lost more than 5 lbs in a month. I am watching what I eat, keeping track of calories most days and exercising. I feel like I am losing weight in spite of the band. If having this surgery is what helped me make these choices, I am fine with that. I am going to keep going like I have and if I don't need a fill for a couple of more months, so be it.

I started out on the day of surgery with 4cc's in a 10cc band and then had 1cc added on May 19. I want to take my time with this because my band is already 50% filled. My doctor feels the same way. He's very conservative, but until I am not losing weight, I won't complain.

Good luck.

Alice

Banded April 8, 2008

271/242/150

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I haven't had any issues either. As of today I am down 28lbs and was banded on May 16th. I keep my caloric intake between 800 and 1000 calories and don't really have any problems doing so. However, I'm scheduled or another fill next friday and I'm going to take it. My Dr. shoots for the maximum amount of weightloss without any side effects, as I'm sure most Drs. do, but he also believes in a consistent schedule. My Dr. also believes in eating when you are hungry...and would like to see me consume as low as 600-800 calories a day. There isn't anyway that I could do that on the 2cc's that I have in my band now...so...I'll keep getting fills every 3-4 weeks until that happens.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Yes Lundy, I'm experiencing the same thing. I am losing 2 pounds a week, can eat anything I want, have never slimed or PB'd or thrown up. I love that McDonald's salad with the grilled chicken and I can eat it all, too. I'd love to be losing weight faster, but I know that slower is the healthier way and at my age, this is more about health for me than about looks and cute clothes (although they count too).

I'm finally starting to experience some of the things I've been reading on this forum from long time bandsters..... especially the part about learning to listen to my body and recognize when I am satisfied (not full). Also I'm recognizing just how much of my hunger is head hunger and I'm seeing just how bad my compulsive eating and/or addiction has been for so long. I'm not going to be "cured" of those issues overnight but the band is proving to be an excellent tool to help me fight it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Am I normal??? I am losing weight with out any thing everyonoe talks about.......no PBing, No Slimming, No getting stuff Stuck. I can eat anything and I do mean ANYTHING with no problems. I can eat an entire Mcdonald's salad including the grilled chicken that comes on the top with no problems.

I go next Thursday to get a fill if needed.........I'm going to say I need a fill just because I can eat alot and I fill like I shouldn't be since everyone else says they can't eat but a bite or two, but my head tells me "Hey your losing weight so leave it all alone".

Anyone else not have any problems like myself and can eat a whole salad and still losing weight??? I do keep my calories around 1300 to 1400 a day.

Need your input PLEASE :blink:

Of course you would still lose weight with 1400 calories a day. If you weight 200 pounds for example anything less then 2300 a day and you will lose. Is the band keeping you at the lower calorie level? I am curious, I see your BMI is 35, how did you qualify for the surgery?

Congratulations, seems like you are doing well.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I have never opted to have real tight restriction. The only time I knew I had a band was when I did not chew well, or ate too much too fast, and it would feel tight in my chest kind of. I can count the # of PB's I have had in 2+ years..........2---and I remember what both of them were, and why!!!

I had 2 fills over that period of time, and one total unfill back in May for my Tummy Tuck.< /strong>

Band PLACEMENT plays a much bigger role my fill Dr. believes that formerly thought it did.

Filling too much and becoming too tight, can lead to cycles of swelling and PB's--if you are losing I would leave it alone, until this phase ends, and then let them tighten you down.

Since my TT, I have not felt hunger, so I have opted not to refill at this point. I have no fill at all. When I begin feeling hungry or gaining weight, I will go without a doubt!!! Til then......if it ain't broke....I ain't gonna try to fix it!!!

Kat

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am curious, I see your BMI is 35, how did you qualify for the surgery?

Thanks for your reply! How did I qualify.......Well I hate to say it but it was easy. I was one pound shy of having a BMI of 35 and I started the process in Feb 08 so it was cold outside and I wore heavy clothes to my first doctor's appointment and made it to the 35 mark. I also had high blood pressure for about a year. It only took United Health Care 2.5 weeks to send the approval letter.

I have heard that it has alot to do with your employer (I work for GE) as to if they will pay for it or not. I know someone who is a nurse at the hospital that I had my surgery and needs it way more than me because of health issues and having a BMI of 44 and the hospital has United Health Care as well but the hospital does not cover the surgery. I spoke to my Doctor about it and told him it did not seem right to be the hospital that promotes the surgery but yet won't pay for it for the people who work for them........he agreed and said they are trying to get them to change.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I wanted a fill because I felt that I was eating too much and I didn't think I was getting any message from the band. He wouldn't do it. He will not give fills if you've lost more than 5 lbs in a month. I am watching what I eat, keeping track of calories most days and exercising. I feel like I am losing weight in spite of the band. If having this surgery is what helped me make these choices, I am fine with that. I am going to keep going like I have and if I don't need a fill for a couple of more months, so be it.

I TOTALLY FEEL THE SAME!!!!! I think I will leave well enough alone!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I wouldn't worry about it. I too, have been very lucky with my band. I had surgery in Nov. and I didn't get my first fill until Feb. I feel I have had great success. I also was able to eat pretty much anything within reason. I also have been exercising like crazy so that has really helped me.

Just recently I was finding it hard to keep eating like I was. I was able to eat pizza, bread, Pasta, anything, but I was starting to see the scale go the wrong way or not move at all, so I finally have gotten my second fill on Monday. I am now losing again in fact this morning I saw a great number, but I don't want to post it until I am certain. Since my fill I've had to do the liquids, mushies, regular food progression again and it has helped me remember my rules and how to eat like a bandster, but so far so good.

I have not had ANY PB's since I've been banded. I was really nervous about getting my fill because I didn't want to wreck a good thing but I was ready to lose again and hopefully very soon I'll be under 200!

a few times since my surgery I would get a really tight feeling in my chest (golf ball) but no sliming or PB so I also feel lucky.

keep up the great work!

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

LundyLane,

I have been blessed as well to lose weight with no problems.

I have had only one fill. I felt great at the doctors office a few weeks back. I felt wonderful restriction. Two weeks later, I have started to slow down on the weight loss and am starting to be a little more hungry. My appointment is not until the end of August. UGGh.

I plan on waiting it out a few more weeks. I don't want the band to do all of the work. But, if I start gaining, or get to hungry I will call for a fill.

Good Luck and enjoy your journey.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

How wonderful! Seems you are doing everything right!

Me, I slime almost every day. I'm an overeater...have been for 30 years.

Been banded 1 year. So, as you can see....it's gonna take more than 1 year for me to NOT be an overeater. But I don't mind if it stays this way for the rest of my life. Sliming doesn't bother me a bit.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

I am all for not being too tight also. At this point, I can eat anything I want, and don't have to chew like crazy anymore. The great thing is I still get full very fast and hardly ever get hungry.

I love my band and I am really happy to be at my sweet spot. For the longest time, I thought I would never find it.

Share this post


Link to post
Share on other sites

Create an account or sign in to comment

You need to be a member in order to leave a comment

Create an account

Sign up for a new account in our community. It's easy!

Register a new account

Sign in

Already have an account? Sign in here.

Sign In Now

  • Trending Products

  • Trending Topics

  • Recent Status Updates

    • LadyVeteran1

      Sleeve surgery is on April 14th.  I am counting the days!!  Can't wait!
      · 3 replies
      1. Brookie2shoes

        Me too girl!! Are you in the full liquid diet right now? It’s sooooo hard!

      2. LadyVeteran1

        Not yet. I was told I only have to do 24 hours of a liquid diet. But I have my pre-op tomorrow so I’m going to confirm if I need to do longer.

      3. buildabetteranna

        Your so close now! It's gonna be great :) Wishing you a speedy recovery and looking forward to seeing how it goes!

    • buildabetteranna

      Down 33 lbs and slightly stalled, but I'm gonna reevaluate and push through. I started back to work last week after 2 years of being disabled due to mental health as well as my weight. It's a great job and I'm just so happy to have this opportunity at a second chance at life. Hope everyone is having their best journey ❤️ Together, we got this!
      · 2 replies
      1. DaisyChainOz

        Great work Anna! Keep it up 😁

      2. buildabetteranna

        Thank you ❤️

    • Bashbee91

      Hey guys new to the process looking forward to this new life. 
      · 0 replies
      1. This update has no replies.
    • Bugg

      Hi everyone! I’m brand new here. I just went through all my pre-op requirements per my insurance company and now everything has been submitted and I’m just waiting for final approval and my surgery date. I’ve been doing research, watching YouTube videos, TikTok’s, ect.. trying to prepare my mind and what to expect so I’ll be ready for the surgery. I was so sure and so set and so ready and excited. However, now that I’ve done everything & it’s almost here, I am sooooooo scared! I know why I want it bc I’ve tried everything and I just don’t feel like I can lose weight by myself. I’m tired of being overweight my entire life. I’m miserable, but I keep psyching myself out afraid of GERD bc I know how that can be and I don’t want to have to get a bypass after already gaining the courage to even get VSG. I’m scared of complications like I’mgoing to regret doing it and be depressed that I didn’t just be more disciplined and try again to lose the weight on my own even sitting here typing this knowing in my mind i just can’t and don’t possess the discipline. I’m also afraid I won’t be able to handle the restrictions of the sleeve. What do I eat? I don’t know how to eat healthy really and don’t enjoy healthy food. I don’t know how to do this! I feel so defeated!Someone tell me they felt anything similar to this or am I not ready? I thought I was. I am so tired of being sick and tired and so tired of myself and so tired of being stuck and stuck in this body and somebody different on the outside from what I feel inside. I just want to ball up and cry.
      · 1 reply
      1. stevieoriole

        Am feeling this right now. My surgery date is 4/1. Sign the consent tomorrow. I feel like I overloaded myself with too much info, too many opinions. Got to the point where I was wondering if I should do this. Then I thought of my reasons for taking this step and that settled my nerves. Still get moments of doubt but am striving forward. Am just going to follow my book from the surgeon. Joined this because I was told by my dietician that I should do this for support

    • buildabetteranna

      over 20 lbs down since4 the pre surgery diet and surgery on the 14th
      · 1 reply
      1. Selina333

        Yay!! Congrats. I know how good that feels. 🤩

  • Recent Topics

  • Hot Products

  • Sign Up For
    Our Newsletter

    Follow us for the latest news
    and special product offers!
  • Together, we have lost...
      lbs

    PatchAid Vitamin Patches

    ×