Insecurity rising

[Gone4Now 4]

That reminds of a dog that we had growing up. She'd look out the window as we were leaving, and then hump the pillows on the sofa. We'd see her back going up and down, then she's pop up and look at us through the window. If we were still looking, she'd start humping again...dogs are weird.

[Nanook 2]

Gloucester,

That's pretty funny, did you ever wash the pillows?:embaressed_smile: Nanook

[Gone4Now 4]

LOL...ew...I dunno. I was a kid, so I'm not sure. I think that my mom just put them there for the dog, to make her think that she was getting one up on us. Then, mom would put them back on the floor when we got home.

I'd love to take an animal psych class. I know humans can never really *know* but it would be interesting to know why dogs/cats do what they do.

[Kat817 19]

As for the original post....maybe I am wierd, I see no issue with it. The first time I went to Hawaii was to see my DD and DH could not go---I took those pics and brought home to him! When we are at a motorcycle rally I am always pointing out the wild or the not much there outfits!!!

He was always with me, even then, when I was at my heaviest, although he loved me back when I was 120 pounds! I knew he loved me at 289 pounds too.

I believe just because you are on a diet you can still look at the menu!!!

More seriously, if this had been after the 2 of you were together, it might be something to worry about, or if the pics were of scimpy dressed men! But this just tells me he is normal! Just bring him home and show him the advantages of a real live woman as opposed to a picture!!!

I bet stress DID play a huge role in your reaction!

Kat

[Gone4Now 4]

Kat, thank you - I've always enjoyed reading your posts becuase they're always very insightful.

I'm not sure I'll ever have that much confidence. :Angel_anim: I can step back, though and appreciate it for what it is, and now I kinda feel silly.

So, yes, stress! I'll blame stress.... <insert sheepish grin!>