Wendy B 0 Posted June 23, 2008 I saw this thread awhile ago and loved it and have started a list of my own. Things I won't miss about being fat. 1. Never finding a towel big enough to go all the way around me and tuck in the front. It always looks so cute when my skinny friends do it! 2. Constantly pulling down my shirt to try and hide my big, low-riding tummy. Who do I think I'm fooling? 3. Cringing or running everytime someone pulls out a camera. 4. Always checking the room to confirm my worst nightmare...I'm the fattest one in the room. 5. All the junk food wrappers in my bedside table! What things won't you miss about being fat? Wendy ps I'm getting banded in Mexico in 5 more days. It's gonna be great. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sarah.R 2 Posted June 23, 2008 You know you can get bath sheets that are huge right? We have them and I love them, wrap them around and still have plenty at the ends Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ebeth0013 0 Posted June 23, 2008 Funny!! lets see.... 1) Not being able to ride all the rides at the amusement parks. 2) Not being able to paint my toe nails easily. 3) Not being uncomfortable when sitting in a booth. 4) Not being able to shop in the Junior department. 5) Not being able to cross my legs. 6) Not being able to wear a bathing suit with out shorts over top it. Many more to think of!!!!!!!! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MSMAURANY 0 Posted June 23, 2008 the disappointment in my honey's eyes because i cant do top...im too embarrassed and feel like im crushing him. Not wanting to go to a party because i know I will be the biggest there. going straight from work to home to sleep because i have no energy. Hearing " you have a pretty face.....but" Complete strangers feeling they have a right to give me diet advice." my step daughter making comments like " oh ud be considered Morbid Obese right?" Not believing my honey when he tells me im hot not wanting to leave the house:frown: Im getting banded in a week :grouphug: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Royalbee 0 Posted June 23, 2008 Lol lol i like u r comments MSMAURANY , yeh i agree with u ! 1-Asked by u r children not to visit them in their schools, or to attend an occasion, u know why :grouphug: 2-Going with u r friends to buy cloths, standing there praising how much they look nice ,( Not being able to find something fits u) . 3-A full closet of shoes and bags ( only things am able to have and can fit easily without feeling embarressed to try) Oh me still have too many things in mind ! i am looking forward to write More things I miss about being fat. hahah Good luck for all Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ocbreeze4u 0 Posted June 23, 2008 I've got one that I truly will not miss... Not being able to shave "down there" and missing spots due to I cannot see past my stomach not matter what position I am in...lol ! It is hard to do just by touch and I have cut myself a few times. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amisha 2 Posted June 23, 2008 Oh god, Dawn, do I relate! Also, I travel a lot for work, so I won't miss: 1) Getting on the airplane and feeling like I need to apologize to everyone for taking up so much space. 2) Sitting on the airplane and feeling like I'm spilling over into and crushing my seat mates to death. 3) Seeing the worry and fear in people's eyes as I approach their seat, and always, ALWAYS interpreting that as fear and worry that they will be the seat mate I am crushing under my massive size. 4) Worrying about whether or not the seat belt will fit without an extender. 5) Not being able to join my work colleagues in the hot tub or pool after a long day. 6) Not being able to wear those cute little black dresses and strappy heels that other women wear to our cocktail parties and fancy dinners. 7) Giving speeches and presentations where I feel like people are not focused on what I'm saying and the value I give to the organization, but instead, thinking about how grossly overweight and uncomfortable I am. and more, I'm sure. Now I'm depressed thinking about it. Gotta get on a plane for a 4-day fancy shindig in Colorado tomorrow...:grouphug: Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
azairforcewife 1 Posted June 23, 2008 thats funny about the towel i was just watching army wifes and they had a scene with her wrapping a towel around her and i thought its been a long time since i could do that!!!!! i cann't wait Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ilse72 0 Posted June 23, 2008 Things I won't miss about being fat. 1. Not being able to buy petite clothing (petites seem to end at size 14). 2. Having strangers look at what I order/eat in a restaurant. 3. Having trouble getting up from the floor after kneeling to do something. 4. Dreading shopping for clothing. 5. Being the "fat friend". Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Amoud 0 Posted June 23, 2008 I love this post!!!!! Everyone has something to add which is all the more motivating. Here are some things I wont miss about being fat: 1 - People asking me if I am pregnant 2 - Everyone assuming I can eat half the buffet, and the sneers and under the breath comments as I approach a buffet 3 - Snarky comments from my in-laws 4 - Not being able to shave my legs in the tub without pulling something 5 - Getting winded from climbing a flight of stairs 6 - Obsessing about what and where I am going to eat next There are so many to list !! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
HeatherO 7 Posted June 23, 2008 I won't missing going shopping, thinking I have something that might fit ok and trying it on in the dressing room and then, seeing there is no way it is going to fit me in a flattering way. Going shopping in certain stores and seeing that the biggest size they have is one size below what I need. Traveling abroad and feeling as though you are the heaviest person in the country, not just the room. Actually it is kind of sad coming back in that I can blend in easily and not be the heaviest here. There is a huge difference in body size here as compared to many countries abroad. Obesity has become such an epidemic here that eventhough you notice how overweight you are, other people just blend in to the background. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gigee 0 Posted June 23, 2008 I won't miss: Being/or feeling like I'm the heaviest person at any function Trying to find something or anything pretty to wear to any function Being the fattest mom among my kids friends Always wearing a jacket (as if it can hide that fact that I'm fat) Wearing those ugly long granny dresses that they sell in plus size stores Wearing granny panties - I can't wait to buy my first sexy thong Always being on the bottom when making love to dh. Looking to be more agile, flexible and moveable Shopping in plus sized stores Not being able to sit in a booth Being heavier than my dh I'll add to my list as other things come to me. I love this. There is hope at the end of this journey Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MicheleK 8 Posted June 23, 2008 I like these threads, they let me vent a little: 1. Not fitting into booths 2. Not fitting into seats at the movies 3. Being scared I'll run into someone I know when I go out somewhere 4. Not wanting to leave the house 5. Shopping at Layne Bryant and discovering their largest shirts STILL don't fit 6. Looking around every time I enter a room to see if I'm the fattest one there 7. Having people make comments about my weight...that are really nasty but they hide it behind "I'm trying to help you" 8. Being paranoid that everyone is judging me due to my weight 9. Cutting off friendships because I'm ashamed of the weight I've gained 10. That place UNDER your belly... 11. Dreading shaving my own legs 12. People thinking I'm older then I am 13. Not believing my husband when he tells me I'm beautiful Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kdlee 0 Posted June 23, 2008 Things I won't miss... 1.) Being worried that I won't fit in a restaurant booth. 2.) The 2nd belly role I get when I sit down. 3.) Not being able to wear a Bracelet because my wrist is too big. 4.) My pants being too big in the legs because I had to get a size bigger to fit around my middle. 5.) My shirts being too tight in the arms. 6.) Worrying about wearing a bathing suit, period. There are so many...I could just keep going! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
aubrie 6 Posted June 23, 2008 I won't miss..... 1. Only having black, tan and white bras and panties to pick from. 2. limited positions in bed with my DH 3. swollen feet and ankles 4. lifting my belly up to completely empty my bladder 5. leaning over to drink out of a wine glass coz the stem hits my boobs 6. not being able to get into a kayak to fish with my husband Share this post Link to post Share on other sites