female only OK ladies... I have a questions about the drive...

[Tristessa 11]

I haven't been banded yet, but I've lost 30lbs since I quit smoking in January (as part of a whole self improvement thing) and since then it's been all "HELLO LIBIDO!"

I'm chalking it partly up to losing some weight, partly up to living a healthier lifestyle/being more active and more than likely partly up to the good ol' biological clock (which has magically sprung to life in the last couple of months. I blame Hollywood.)

[Babysoftly 0]

my husband and i were banded the same day. same as you; got fluffy after the I do's were said and our extremely active sex life dropped off significantly - and it was more on his part. he was extremely self conscious & unhappy with his weight gain.

fast forward 8 months and it's back to our courting days, he's a teenager with the constant grabbing/touching/kissing - very affectionate. he made goal in 6months (hate men loose faster:tongue:), and i'm getting close - the weightloss has made a HUGE difference in our relationship - not just with sex.

Ohhhhhhhhh! He made THAT goal...... phew! ROFLMAO.... I read it wrong.....