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Hi Everyone.

I was banded on April 4, 2008 by Dr. Spivak. All was good for the first 3 weeks....i lost 15lbs but have been struggling ever since. I went for the first fill...and that didnt work so I went back a week later and he filled it with some thicker stuff. Although that has helped some....I still have a hard time. I am able to eat more than they say I should be eating. My weight loss has slowed down tremendously and I get discouraged too.

I am going to try my best to start walking some each day and hopefully this will help. Being a single mom of three can somtimes be very stressful but I will not be defeated again. Anyone with suggesstons would be greatly appreciated.

Wanda

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hii. i too, have come to a halt. i was banded march 13th. things were great that first month. i've had 2 fills thus far..but nothing. i just started weight watchers last week and did pretty good. lost 5lbs in a week..so that could be a suggestion. i just keep track of the points..dont do the meetings or pay for it ya kno. but then i got my period and that went out the window..but now that its over i'm gettin right back on track,,started today..so hoping i lose another 5 this week. also, do try the walking. i walk 5-6 times a week for 45 minutes. at first i really had to force myself to go, but now i love it, i feel great afterwards and really look forward to it. i like looking at peoples houses..thats a good motivator. well hope i helped and good luck to you!! take care

xoxo

Jenna

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Wanda- I think you have to patient with your body. I know, you made your decision to lose the weight, had the surgery and now... nothing. Really though, your body has been through a lot of trauma and it too needs to adjust to your new way of life. Hold on and be tuff, look how fat you've come. :lol:

Deb

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Thanks for the encouragement. I am going to go back for a fill next week! I will keep you posted. Walking is great! Finding the time is a hard task though! I did walk tonight and it was great!!

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Hi wlh08,

Have you been keeping track of your calorie intake? If so, how much are you allowing yourself per day? Walking is a great start. I know it's hard to get up and go, just don't allow yourself to make any excuses. Just get up and go. The fill will also help, if you are always hungry.

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No I have not been tracking my food intake which is something I will start doing! As I look back I must have thought the band was going to be some type of miracle cure and I would automatically become skinny...well reality is finally sinking in! This website along with you guys has helped me face the fact......I have to take charge of my decisions and actions! I have to make some changes or I will never win this battle!! Thanks Guys!!!!

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I think Im in the same boat - had surgery early April not down too much - can pretty much eat what I want if I chew slow - I think we all have to listen to wha other people say - it may take like 4, 5 or 6 fills to get it right - but when it works it WORKS! I know I have no paitence & I want it all NOW - but sometimes we have to wait a little for the grand prize at the end. Dont be discouraged Wanda - it will work out for all of us!! Good luck!

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Thanks Julie. Yeah I want results "NOW" and that is the toughest part.

I won't give up and good luck to you too. You seem like you have it pretty much together but if you ever need me...I'm here!! Thanks again for the encouragement!

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It was like that for me too....slow to start but when I found my sweet spot WHAM!!! It will come my dear :thumbup: Good-luck to you!

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Hi I was banded on 4/7/2008 I also can eat more than what they say I should. I've been having terrible cravings, I to was wondering if this is normal

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Hey Wanda - i m here for ya if ya wanna chat - im alwasy around quietly surfing the net! I cant wait to get filled again on Aug 3rd - Dr said I can come back if I feel Im still eatting too much - but I need to control myself!!!! I always say Im like a puppy dog - if yo put food in fron tof me I WILL EAT IT!!!!!! LOL

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You need to be patience. You are doing great for 2 months! My question for you is what kind of thicker stuff? I have never heard of that before and to tell you the truth it sounds scary. What is your doctor putting into your band that could leak out into your system?

Ask that he stays with saline and just puts in more. I hate to think that some doctors are using silicone, that's scary stuff.

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The thicker stuff is called omnipaque (spelling). It is exacty like saline but thicker for small leaks. My doctor uses it all the time on me. It is not dangerous.

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Thank you so much for the responses. I haven't had much time to be on the computer lately but it is so nice to come on and have the support waiting for you. Can't get my fill until next week due to work issues but I am so ready to get back on track! Thanks again everyone for taking the time to care!

Wanda

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