First problem...

[LilMissDiva Irene 3,282]

Drew,

Could it be that your brother is just concerned about you and doesn't quite know how to express that? I think that might be the case.

Sure he didn't choose the most endearing way to say this, but he, I'm almost positive wanted to let you know that he cares about you and what you are going through.

Try to remember though that you are going through this journey for you and no one else. Maybe you can remind him of this next time you see him and especially if he tries to rekindle that last conversation.

[EricaLyn 0]

Unfortunately your brother may just be jealous. As much as I'm sure he loves you, you're going to be changing and that may not be sitting too well with him.

People don't like it when we change. We're familiar and comfortable and if we change, we may change our opinions and perceptions of them.

I'm sure once your brother sees your hardwork in losing weight - eating right and exercising, he'll change his tune. Some people just need to be educated.

Hang in there. You're off to a good start!

[nurse niki 0]

I agree that your bro seems to be both a little jealous and maybe his reaction to you doing something about your weight problem, forces him to address the issues he has with his own weight.

It is not easy to decide who to share you feelings with. And to take a backlash from your brother, makes it even harder to handle. Remember why this is important to you, and try to let all of the negative stuff roll off your shoulders. You are very lucky to have a great family to support your decision and stick up for you when your brother started on your case.

Good luck!

[drew05 20]

Thanks to everyone for the support. It means so much to me.