Just a toddler taking the first baby steps

[sandibly 0]

Hello, I just joined and wanted to introduce myself to you. I am a 42 year old wife and mother of 4 teenagers. I am now approx 125lbs overweight. And I am finally ready to admit for the first time in 20 years. I can't do this by myself. Looking back on one of my old journals about 3 years ago, I actually started this process of possible bariatric surgery to help me with my Quest for better health. I had the consultation scheduled, but after a month i had lost 8lbs on my own. so i called and canceled. well, i am now at least 50lbs heavier than i was 3 years ago. so what will happen to me in 3 more years? will the weight keep increasing?? For the past 3 years i've had asthmatic type symptoms that landed me in the hospital, this past year i was also in for stomach problems, i've been dealing with high bloodpressure for the past 5 years, now my knees are bothering me so much it is slowing down my exercise schedule. I have a family history of obesity and complications. 3 out of 5 brothers had or have had 150-200lbs. to loose at one given time. 3 of my brothers are type II diabetics. My Sister has at least 50lbs to loose. My dad died at age 52 from a 4th heart attack, my mom died at age 58 being at least 150lbs over weight.... let me be honest with myself......... this doesn't look really good for my future!!! I've tried weight watchers, Atkins, personal dietitions, personal trainers, and although i can loose weight...... i seem to stall at the 20lb mark :scared2:!

So on June 10th i go to the class at Woman's Magee Hospital in Pittsburgh Pa. and I'll go from there..... i am scared and excited at the same time, I want to hurry up and slow down............ I hope i find support and information on this website.

thanks for listening

[Quinny 1]

Sounds like you know what you need to do and are a perfect canidate! Hang in there. I too have just started the process and hope to be banded by the end of the year.

[Froggi 4]

You're perfect for lapband! I wish you lots of luck in your journey. And also WELCOME TO LBT :scared2:

[DebNH 1]

Welcome... I am new also to the lapband process and I think you will find this site a fantastic resource; I sure have!

Good luck!!! :scared2:

Deb

[orea15 0]

Sometimes we just have to wait until we are really ready. In my case, life had to pretty much hit me in the face!

Congratulations on making a good and life-affirming decision.

Orea

[lorid 0]

This is the BEST gift you will EVER give yourself! If you work with the band you WILL lose the weight. I look back over photos of myself now and just start tearing up. I can't believe I was really that big. It feels so good to be 62 lbs lighter and counting! Welcome to the "Losers Club" my friend! I am excited for you and the journey you are about to begin!