Kind of down in the dumps

eazes · May 23, 2008

Hubby and I had a great talk and it turns out that we both weren't listening to each other last night. LOL Imagine that! :cool2: Today we sat down and listened to each other. Turns out he was just pointing out questions that I should be asking the doc so I can be more informed and I was telling him stuff we learned at the seminar. Some where in between us talking to each other we didn't hear each other. That is something we are going to have to work on so I can continue to rely on him for support and so he doesn't feel that I'm jumping into this blind.

I thank you all for your support today and hopefully my post will help others if they run into the same dilemma. Oh yeah...I did invite him to a seminar but I don't know if he really wants to go. He really didn't say anything attending but we'll see.

singledad167 · May 23, 2008

Hubby and I had a great talk and it turns out that we both weren't listening to each other last night. LOL Imagine that! :cool2: Today we sat down and listened to each other. Turns out he was just pointing out questions that I should be asking the doc so I can be more informed and I was telling him stuff we learned at the seminar. Some where in between us talking to each other we didn't hear each other. That is something we are going to have to work on so I can continue to rely on him for support and so he doesn't feel that I'm jumping into this blind.
I thank you all for your support today and hopefully my post will help others if they run into the same dilemma. Oh yeah...I did invite him to a seminar but I don't know if he really wants to go. He really didn't say anything attending but we'll see.

Great to hear. Sometimes (who am I kidding) I mean most of the time, us men are slow at accepting reality. I didn't even think we were really having a baby till we saw the ultra sound, then reality sunk in! Maybe it just took some time for it to sink in. But there's gonna be some big changes coming, I agree, communicating will be the key here.